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Sunday, September 1, 2019

Humbly Different

This is the message given in the United Methodist churches of the Wheatland Parish on Sunday, September 1, 2019.  The Bible verses used are Hebrews 13:1-16.

We’ve talked before about how, as Christians, we’re supposed to be part of the world, and yet not be influenced by the world.  In other words, as Christians, we are not supposed to just wall ourselves off from the rest of society.  We need to be engaged with other people, including people who are not Christians.  We need to be engaged with society as a whole.  After all, Jesus told us to go and make disciples, and we cannot make disciples by staying to ourselves.  The only way we can make new disciples is to associate with people who are not already Christians.

           But, of course, there’s a danger in that.  Our purpose in engaging with society is to try to change society.  But the danger is that, instead, society may change us.  It’s easier for that to happen than you may think.

            You see, the thing is, most of us want to be liked.  We want to have friends.  We want the people around us to think well of us.  And the easiest way for us to be liked, and to have friends, and to have people think well of us, is to fit in.  To go along with the crowd.  To do what the people around us do.  It’s really easy for that to happen.  It can happen without us making a conscious decision for it to happen.  It can happen without us even realizing it has happened.  Sometimes, we even rationalize it.  We tell ourselves that we’re just getting to know people, that we’re learning how to relate to them, that we’re trying to earn their trust.  But we cannot be witnesses for Christ if people cannot see that our Christianity has made any difference in our lives.  And so, while we may start out by wanting to change society, we instead allow society has changed us.

            This is not a new problem.  It was going on when the letter to the Hebrews was written.  That’s why the letter contains the things we read for today.  The Hebrews of that time were tempted to go along with the crowd, too, just like we are.  And so this letter was written to remind them that, as Christians, they and we are supposed to be different.

            Let’s look at some of the examples our reading gives for how we’re supposed to be different.  Love one another as brothers and sisters.  We’d like to think we do that, but do we, really?  I suspect many of us fall short.  I know I do.  I’ll do things for family that I would not do for other people.  I certainly will do things for family that I would not do for people I don’t know very well.  And I’m guessing I’m not the only one.

            Show hospitality to strangers.  Again, we’d like to think we do.  And in some situations, maybe we do.  But how many times do we walk right by a stranger and not even take any notice of them.  It probably happens less when we’re here in town, because there are not that many people who would truly be strangers to us.  But when we’re out of town, do we even notice people around us?  If we walked by someone, and it looked like they were hurting or it looked like they were sad or it looked like they needed help, would we even see that?  Because if we don’t see it, we’re not going to do anything about it.

            Continue to remember those in prison as if you were together with them in prison.  That does not mean that we all have to go into prison ministry or something.  But I suspect most of us have known people who were in prison.  I have.  Did we take the time to send them a card or a letter?  Did we make any effort to let them know we were thinking of them?  Did we do something to let their families know we were there for them?  And again, I’m not saying I do this and you don’t.  There are times I have, but there are many times I have not.    

And sometimes, we’re tempted to think, well, it’s their own fault they’re in prison.  And maybe it is.  But the letter to the Hebrews does not say “remember those in prison if they were wrongly imprisoned.”  It does not say anything about right or wrong.  It says to remember them and be there for them.  Because the fact that our troubles are our own fault does not make the troubles easier to deal with.  In fact, it can make them harder, because we have no one to blame for them but ourselves.  And those times, when people are at a really low point, are the times when people need us more than ever.

Honor marriage, because God will judge the adulterer and the sexually immoral.  I don’t need to tell you that our society does not honor marriage like it used to.  You know the statistics on divorce and on people cheating on their spouses.  And I’m not here to judge anyone, don’t get me wrong.  Our reading says God will judge, not the pastor will judge.  Divorces happen for a lot of reasons, and there are a lot of circumstances involved.  But still, as Christians, we are supposed to honor marriage in a way that society does not.

Keep yourself free from the love of money.  Be content with what you have.  That might be the hardest one of all.  How many of us would not like more money?  I would.  Probably you would, too.  We may not love money, but we do like it, right?  And I’m not saying that it’s unchristian to have money.  But it’s easy to fall into the trap of chasing too hard after money.  We need to trust that, whether we have a lot or a little, God will take care of us and give us what we need.

Our reading from Hebrews does not give us a comprehensive list, of course.  But it does give us a lot of important things to work on.  It gives us a lot of important ways that, as Christians, we are not supposed to go along with the values of society.  As Christians, you and I are supposed to be different.

But you know, there’s one other thing we need to be aware of, and it’s one we don’t talk about a whole lot.  When we make that decision that we are going to be different from society, and when we then try to follow through on that decision, it’s really easy for us to start thinking we’re better than other people.  It’s really easy for us to start feeling superior, to look down on the rest of the people.  The people who are not quite as “holy” as we are, you know.  And again, a lot of times that’s not something we intend to do.  We may not even realize we’re doing it.  And it’s not necessarily wrong to feel good about ourselves when we resist temptation.  But it is wrong when we allow that good feeling to slide into arrogance.

Because arrogance is a sin, too.  And it’s one that God has a lot to say about.  God’s words against arrogance are all over the Old Testament.  Almost every one of the Old Testament prophets talked about how arrogance was the root of the people’s sin, and that God was not going to let that arrogance go unpunished.  It was arrogance that led them to go against God.  It was arrogance that led them to trust in themselves rather than trusting God.  Isaiah says, “The arrogance of man will be brought low and human pride humbled.”  Hosea says, “Israel’s arrogance testifies against them.”  

And it does not change when we go to the New Testament.  Remember Jesus’ story about the Pharisees who goes to the temple and thanks God that he’s better than other people?  That was one of the main things Jesus had against the Pharisees--that they were arrogant, and that their arrogance had led them to love their own rules more than they loved God.

So what do we do?  How do we refuse to go along with society’s values, how do we resist the temptation to go along, and yet not start feeling that we’re better than other people for doing it?  

I think our reading from Hebrews gives us an answer.  In verse fifteen, it says, “Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise--the fruit of lips that openly profess his name.”

“A sacrifice of praise”.  Think about that phrase.  Right before that, our reading talks about the animal sacrifices that the priests made.  But that’s not the sacrifice God wants.  God wants the sacrifice of our hearts.  God wants hearts that are dedicated to God.  God wants hearts that praise God and show gratitude to God and are eager to serve God.

Hearts like that will be able to resist the temptation to go along with society’s values.  But they will also be able to resist the temptation to be arrogant.  Because they will be hearts that realize that everything that have, and everything they are, comes from God.  And they will be hearts that are eager to acknowledge that, both to God and to each other.  

You know, sometimes people wonder why the Bible tells us so many times that we should praise God.  Well, this is one of the reasons why.  We cannot praise God and be arrogant at the same time.  Not if our praise is sincere, anyway.  If we believe, and acknowledge, that everything we have and everything we are comes from God, we will not be able to give ourselves credit for anything.  If we give God that sacrifice of praise, we will not need to worry about falling into the sin of arrognace, because we will know, in our minds and in our hearts, that God deserves credit for everything.
            
            As Christians, you and I are supposed to be different from the rest of society.  And if we’re going to be witness for Christ, people need to see that our Christianity makes us different.  But we should not be arrogant about it, and we don’t need to be.  We just need to keep making those sacrifices of praise to God.  We need to have hearts that are totally dedicated to serving God, and that acknowledge that everything we have and everything we are comes from God.  It’s not always easy, and we may fail sometimes.  But if we keep trying, and keep trusting God, and keep praising God, you and I will succeed more often than we’ll fail.  And we will be the witnesses for Jesus Christ that God has called us to be.

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