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Monday, September 17, 2012

Love Can Be Habit-Forming

This is the message in the Wheatland Parish on Sunday, September 16, 2012.  The scriptures were Matthew 13:1-9; Luke 10:25-37; and James 2:14-16.  

            Have you ever had someone ask you if you were saved?
           
As we talk about United Methodism and what it means to be a United Methodist, this is one of the places where we differ from some other denominations.  There are some denominations that believe everyone needs to be able to point to a specific date and time at which they were saved, and that if we cannot do that, then we’re not really saved.
           
Now, if any of you can do that, if you had a dramatic religious experience and can point to a specific date and time at which it happened, that’s wonderful.  I am not up here telling you there’s something wrong with that or that it’s somehow not legitimate.  As we talked last week, the United Methodist Church allows for differences, including differences in how we come to our faith. 

In the United Methodist Church, though, we don’t necessarily look at salvation in quite that way.  We look at salvation more as a process, one that takes place throughout the course of our lives.  Again, that’s not to say we cannot have a dramatic experience that changes our lives.  Even if we do have that kind of experience, though, we still need to look at our salvation as a process, because salvation is based on love, and for love to stick it needs to become a habit.  Sometimes we can have a dramatic religious experience only to have the drama fade and slip back to being just like we were before, like in Jesus’ parable of the sower.  That’s not what we want.  We want to form a habit of love:  love for God and love for others.

That’s why, as United Methodists, we don’t just look at salvation as going to heaven.  That’s an important part of salvation, of course, but it’s not all of it.  In the United Methodist church, we don’t say, “we have been saved” or “we will be saved.”  We say “we are saved”.  Present tense.  Salvation is a process of love that goes on all during our lives on earth.

True to our name once again, we United Methodists believe there’s a method for this.  We don’t believe that it’s our method, though.  There are other denominations that believe in it.  We don’t believe it’s a method that’s just available to United Methodists, either.  It’s a method that’s available to anyone, anywhere.  We don’t believe that you have to be part of the United Methodist Church, or part of any church, to receive salvation.

The reason for that is that United Methodists believe that salvation comes only through the grace of God.  None of us can earn our salvation.  None of us will ever deserve salvation.  We cannot be good enough, or loving enough, or holy enough, to be saved through anything we do.  We have salvation only through the incredible love and mercy of God.  God sees each one of us, as sinful and unworthy as we are, and yet offers salvation to each one of us.  It’s such an incredible gift of love that God offers us.

Not only does God offer us this incredible gift of love, God encourages us to accept it.  The way God does this has come to be called “prevenient grace.”  The word “prevenient” just means “to come before.”  In other words, God’s prevenient grace comes before we’ve accepted Jesus Christ as our Savior.  It can come before we’ve even heard of Jesus Christ.  God’s prevenient grace gives us an awareness of that God exists, even if we cannot put that awareness into words.  It makes us aware that we are not the people we should be, and that we need to do something about that.  We become aware that we need to do something to get closer to God, even if we’re not sure what it is we need to do.

This awareness is what can lead to another type of grace that has come to be called “justifying grace”.  Justifying grace is the way our relationship with God is restored to what it should be.

Now, again, this is a gift of love from God.  We don’t do anything to earn it.  We do need to accept it, though.  The way we accept it is by going to God, confessing our sins, and repenting of them.

We talked a little about this last week, but repentance does not mean that we’re never going to sin again.  Repentance means that we acknowledge who we are and ask for God’s help to change the direction of our lives.  We can do that by accepting Jesus Christ as our Savior.

What this really is, is a change of our hearts.  It happens both through our action and through God’s action.  God’s prevenient grace makes us aware of our need to change, and the Holy Spirit guides us to the change we need.  The role we have is to be willing to accept the Holy Spirit’s loving guidance and accept Jesus Christ as our Savior.

I don’t want to gloss over that, because it’s not easy.  It’s not easy to change our hearts and turn them toward God.  Our old, selfish habits die pretty hard.  That’s why we say repentance does not mean we’re not going to sin again.  We are going to sin again.  No matter how sincere we are in repentance, no matter how much we want to change, no matter how much we want to accept the guidance of the Holy Spirit, even if we’re sincere about accepting Jesus Christ as our Savior, we’re going to sin again.  And again.  And again.  It’s part of who we are as human beings.

That’s why this process of salvation does not end when we repent and accept Jesus as our Savior.  It continues to something that has come to be called “sanctifying grace.”

Sanctifying grace is something that draws us toward the greatest of all God’s gifts, the gift of Christian perfection.  And you say, now wait a minute, Jeff, are you saying you think United Methodists are perfect?  Well, the answer is yes!  Of course United Methodists are perfect!  No, actually, that’s not what we mean when we talk about Christian perfection.

John Wesley described Christian perfection as having a heart “habitually filled with the love of God and neighbor” and as “having the mind of Christ and walking as he walked.  In other words, Christian perfection is taking those old, selfish habits we talked about a minute ago and replacing them with the habit of love.  Think about that.  Having our hearts so filled with love of God and love of our neighbor that it just becomes second nature to feel that love.  We don’t even have to think about feeling love any more, we just do it naturally, because our hearts are so full of the love of God and of our neighbors that there’s no room for anything else.

Is that possible?  Wesley believed it is, although he did not believe he had done it himself.  Even if we don’t think we can reach Christian perfection, though, it still should be our goal.  Because, after all, that’s what Jesus told us to do.  Jesus said those are the two greatest commandments, to love God and to love our neighbors.

            There’s one more aspect to Christian perfection.  Whether love has become a habit for us or if we’re still trying to move in that direction, love needs to be shown by our actions.  As I said earlier, we don’t earn our salvation.  If we truly love God and love others, though, love has to make itself known in some outward way.  Both faith and good works are part of God’s grace, because they both come from God’s gracious love.

We have all kinds of chances to show that love.  All around us are people who are hurting in some way.  All around us are people who are in need.  Almost everyone we see, including everyone in this church, is struggling with something.  It may be physical.  It may be emotional.  It may be financial.  It may be personal.  It may involve themselves, it may involve a family member, it may involve a close friend.  Other people may know about it or they may not.  But almost everyone we see is struggling with something.

We are put on this earth in families and in communities to help each other with those struggles.  We need to show God’s love to each other within this church.  We need to show God’s love to people in this community outside of this church.  And we need to show God’s love to people beyond our community, in every way that we can.  We need to make love for others a habit, one that we indulge in every chance we get.

That may sound like a lot.  Well, in one way it is, but in another way, it’s not.  If we have hearts filled with the love of God and the love of our neighbors, showing God’s love to all these people won’t seem like it’s so hard.  Instead, it will seem like a joy.

Remember, too, we don’t do this alone.  We do it with God.  Prevenient grace is a gift of love from God.  Justifying grace is a gift of love from God.  Sanctifying grace and moving toward Christian perfection are gifts of love from God.  We can only do these things through God’s gifts of love.

If we let God’s Holy Spirit fill our hearts with the love of God and the love of others, there is literally nothing we cannot do.  Love will become a habit for us, and we’ll truly understand what Jesus meant when he said that with God, all things are possible.

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