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Sunday, September 24, 2017

No Rejection, No Argument

This is the message given in the United Methodist churches of the Wheatland Parish on Sunday, September 24, 2017.  The Bible verses used are John 18:12-14, 19-24.


            In our sermon series about the earthly life of Jesus, we’re approaching the end of Jesus’ time on earth.  Judas has betrayed him.  Jesus has been arrested.  Now, he’s been taken to the high priest for questioning.  The questions, we’re told, are about Jesus’ disciples and about Jesus’ teaching.
            The more I think about the way Jesus answered those questions, the more remarkable it seems to me.  Because there were a lot of ways Jesus could’ve played this, you know.  He could’ve denied everything.  He could’ve claimed he’d been taken out of context, that the things he’d said did not mean what it was claimed they meant.  He could’ve said that the accusations against him were a pack of lies--which, according to some of the other gospels, they actually were.  
There were other options.  He could’ve gotten angry, the way he did in the temple courts when he chased out the money changers.  He could’ve questioned their authority--he could’ve told them that he was the divine Son of God and that they had no right to question him about anything.  He could’ve even called on divine help--last week we read where Jesus said that all he had to do was ask and God the Father would send twelve legions of angels to help him.  These are just some of the ways Jesus could’ve played this, some of the ways he could’ve reacted to the questioning from the high priest.
But Jesus did not do any of that.  Here’s what Jesus said:
I have spoken openly to the world.  I always taught in synagogues or at the temple, where all the Jews come together.  I said nothing in secret.  Why question me?  Ask those who heard me.  Surely they know what I said.
Jesus knew that the high priest’s mind was closed.  He did not know who Jesus was and was not interested in finding out.  The high priest was not looking for information.  He was looking for a reason to have Jesus killed.  It did not matter what Jesus said.  The decision had already been made.  So Jesus refused to play along.  He was not going to get angry.  He was not going to argue.  He simply says, everyone knows what I said.  What’s the point of asking me?  Without saying so, he makes it clear to everyone that the high priest has no intention of giving him a fair trial.  This is just all for show, and Jesus is not about to put on a show.
And it’s interesting, I think, that the officials had no idea how to handle that.  One of them gets mad and slaps Jesus.  And Jesus again refuses to play along with the charade.  He simply says, “If I said something wrong, testify as to what is wrong.  But if I spoke the truth, why did you strike me?”
I think there are some important lessons here for us.  We’ve talked before about how Jesus told us to go and make disciples.  In doing that, it’s important that we live lives that show our Christian faith, but it’s also important that actually spread the word.  It’s important that we tell people about our church and about our faith in Jesus Christ.  
One of the things that keeps us from doing that is fear.  That fear can take several forms, but among them are the fear of rejection and the fear of starting an argument.  But I think that the way Jesus handled this shows us ways we can deal with those fears.
Let’s look at the fear of rejection first.  Now, Jesus was rejected.  Absolutely he was.  But look at the people who rejected him.  They were people, like the high priest and like the officials surrounding him, whose minds were closed.  They were people who were not receptive to Jesus’ message in any way, shape, or form.  They were not interested in hearing anything Jesus had to say.  They were not interested in hearing why he said what he said.  Without even hearing what Jesus had to say, they were already opposed to him.
These were not the first people Jesus had run into who had that attitude, of course.  It happened at various times during his ministry.  And basically, Jesus reacted the same way to all of them, which was that he was not going to waste his time with them.  Essentially, Jesus knew that there’s no point in talking to a brick wall.  He tells the disciples the same thing.  In Matthew Ten, Fourteen, Jesus says, “If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet.”  Jesus knew there would be plenty of other people who would be receptive, or at least open-minded, so there was no point in wasting time on those who were not.
            When we look at this way, we can see we don’t need to fear rejection.  We just need to move on from it.  If we’re talking about Jesus and we get rejected, it’s okay.  You and I don’t need to take it personally, because they’re not rejecting us personally.  They’re rejecting Jesus.  It’s not an insult to us.  It’s an insult to Jesus.  So let Jesus handle it.  Move on.
            So let’s look at the fear of starting an argument.  That can happen, of course.  We all know people who love to argue, right?  And they’ll argue about almost anything, including religion.  But just because someone wants to argue does not mean that you and I have to join the argument.
            Now we should make clear, there’s a difference between an argument and a discussion.  Jesus welcomed discussion.  You and I should welcome it, too.  If someone wants to know more about Jesus, if someone wants to know more about the Christian faith, that’s an awesome thing.  We need to encourage that.  If someone has honest questions about God and is really interested in finding the answers, that’s a great thing.  Asking honest questions is one of the best ways to learn.
            That’s far different from an argument.  And again, it gets back to the distinction between someone whose mind is closed and someone whose mind is open.  And we can usually tell that difference through the course of talking to someone.  If the person we’re talking to is actively engaged in hearing what we have to say, if they’re responding to it, if they’re being respectful and asking questions out of a desire to learn more, we can usually tell that.  If the person we’re talking to is not interested in hearing what we have to say, if they’re just interested in making their own points and don’t even seem to be paying attention to what we’re saying, we can usually tell that, too.  That’s when it becomes an argument.
            Jesus showed us how not to get involved in an argument.  The more I read what Jesus said, the more impressed I am by it.  He says, basically, you don’t have to ask me what I taught.  Everyone knows it.  Everything I said was out in the open, in public.  If you really want to know what I said, ask the people who heard me.  If I said anything wrong, say what it is.  If not, what are we doing here?
            That’s an example for us.  If someone is not interested in hearing what we have to say, if they just want to argue, we don’t need to fall for it.  And again, we don’t need to take it personally, either, because the fact is that they’re not really arguing with us.  They’re arguing with Jesus Christ.  All we need to do is say, hey, I’m just telling you what Jesus said.  I can show you where Jesus said it, if you like.  But if you don’t want to like it or don’t want to hear it, that’s your choice.  Your problem is with Jesus, not with me.
            Jesus had told the disciples that was going to happen, too.  In Matthew Ten, Forty, Jesus says, “Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me, and anyone who welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me.”  The implication, then, is that anyone who does not welcome the disciples does not welcome Jesus, and does not welcome God the Father who sent him.  So it’s not us that’s not welcomed.  It’s Jesus.  It’s not an insult to us.  It’s an insult to Jesus.  So again, let Jesus handle it and move on.
            There’s one other point to make about moving on.  By moving on, we’re not giving up on anyone.  If someone changes their attitude, if they become receptive to God’s word, if they want to hear about Jesus, we should always be ready to talk to them.  Jesus would’ve been more than happy to talk to the high priest if the high priest had actually been interested in hearing what he had to say.  Moving on does not mean slamming a door on anybody.  We should always make clear that, if someone truly wants to know more about Jesus Christ, we’ll be more than willing to talk with them.  
            But if not, then we need to do what Jesus told us to do.  Focus on the people who are interested, not on the people who are not.  And know that they are not rejecting us and they are not arguing with us.  They are rejecting Jesus and arguing with Jesus.  So we can let Jesus handle it and not worry about it.
            Jesus told us to go and make disciples.  You and I can do that without fear.  If we keep our eyes open and our hearts open, God will show us people who’ll be interested in Jesus’ message.  Pray for God’s Holy Spirit to lead you to those people.  Then, trust that God will tell you what to say, so that they may be led to faith in Jesus Christ.


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