There’s a phrase you’ll hear people use from
time to time. Maybe you’ve even used it yourself. It’s a phrase that’s almost become a cliché
any more, and in fact it’s a phrase that’s actually become somewhat
controversial. That phrase is this:
“thoughts and prayers”. Whenever
there’s a time of sadness or tragedy, you’ll hear someone say, “Our thoughts
and prayers are with you.”
Now, it’s hard to see what could be wrong with that.
I mean, it’s hard to think of a basis for a Christian to object to the idea of
praying for someone who’s going through a tough time. Where the criticism
comes, though, is that sometimes people will accuse Christians of using prayer
as an excuse for not taking action. They say, “Oh, sure, you’ll pray for
these people or this situation, but you don’t want to actually do something to
help them.”
Now, if that’s truly our attitude, there is some validity
to the criticism. I mean, James wrote about that. He says in James Chapter Two, “Suppose a
brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says
to them, ‘Go in peace, keep warm and well fed’, but does nothing about their
physical needs, what good is it?” As
Christians, we are not supposed to use prayer as an excuse for failing to help
people.
But where the criticism fails, I think, is that it seems to
imply that prayer has no power. It implies that praying for someone is
worthless, that praying is equal to doing nothing. And I don’t think that’s true at all.
There are times when praying for someone is the most important thing we can
do. And that brings me to our reading
for today from Paul’s letter to the Colossians.
After the initial greeting, what’s the first thing Paul
tells the Colossians? He tells them that he, and the others with him,
have been praying for them. And he tells
them what kind of a prayer it is. It is a prayer of thanksgiving. Paul tells the Colossians that he and the
others always thank God when they pray for them.
And that’s not the only time, in this short passage, that
Paul tells the Colossians that he’s praying for them. He says that, since
the day he and his friends first heard about the Colossians, they have not
stopped praying for them.
Now, before we go any farther, let’s think about
that. When you pray for someone, what do you pray for? Good health? Safety from harm? Reasonable financial security? God’s protection over them? That they
will change somehow? When you pray for
other people, what do you pray for?
Well, there’s nothing wrong with praying for any of those
things. I’ve prayed them, and I’ve had them prayed for me. And I appreciate when they’re prayed for
me. But let’s look at the things Paul prays for in regard to the
Colossians. He prays that God will give
them knowledge of God’s will. He prays that they will have wisdom and
understanding through the Holy Spirit.
He prays that they will live lives that are worthy of the Lord and are
pleasing to God in every way. He prays that God will give them strength,
so they can have great endurance and patience.
That’s quite a prayer. That kind of prayer cuts right
to the heart of our lives, you know? Again, there’s nothing wrong with
praying for health or safety or God’s protection or any of those other
things. But the things Paul prayed for in regard to the Colossians are
the things that are and should be most important to us as Christians.
And they’re the things we really should be talking about
when we talk about the power of prayer. It gets back, again, to Jesus’
statement to Peter about human concerns versus the concerns of God.
Health, safety, protection--those are human concerns. They’re still important, don’t get me
wrong. But the things Paul prayed for
are the concerns of God. Knowledge of God’s will. Wisdom and understanding. Living a life worthy of God. Strength from God, so we can have the
patience and endurance we need in living that life.
We cannot get those things on our own. We can only
get them through God’s Holy Spirit, and the way we get God’s Holy Spirit into
our hearts and souls is through prayer. If you’re not sure about that,
let me ask you this: have you ever tried
to understand God’s will without praying?
Have you ever tried to live a life worthy of God without praying?
Have you ever tried to have the inner strength to have patience and endurance
without praying, without asking for God’s help?
If you have, let me ask you: how did that work out
for you? Because it has sure never worked out for me. In fact, not
only have I never been able to get any of those things without prayer, when
I’ve tried to do it without prayer I’ve made a mess of it. Even if I had
the best of intentions, even if I was trying to do everything right, it did not
work if I did not make God part of the process.
I have always needed God to be involved if I was going to understand
God’s will and live a life worthy of God. I’m not saying it’s always
worked even then, because I still make plenty of mistakes. But if I make God part of it I at least have
a chance of getting it right. Without
God, I have no chance. And also, if I
make God a part of it, sometimes things ultimately work out in a way I never
intended.
Now, Paul does not just tell the Colossians that he’s
praying for them and leave it at that. Paul goes on to tell them all
sorts of things. There are four chapters
in Colossians, after all. He tells them about the power and awesomeness
of God. He tells them about the
reconciliation and grace that can come through the life and death of Jesus
Christ, if we will just accept him as the Savior. He tells them about the
forgiveness and freedom that can come from accepting Jesus. He also gives them some warnings: warnings about falling back into slavery
under the law, warnings about things to watch out for, warnings about ways that
people tend to stray from following God. But for Paul, it all starts with
prayer.
And in fact, it ends with prayer, too. In the last
chapter of Colossians, before he gives some final greetings to some specific
people, Paul tells the Colossians this: “Devote yourselves to prayer,
being watchful and thankful. And pray
for us, too, that God may open a door for our message...Pray that I may
proclaim it clearly, as I should.”
Paul was probably the most active evangelist of his
time. He traveled all over the known world, trying to spread the
gospel. And yet, he thought the most important thing he could do for
people was pray. And he thought the most important thing anyone could do
for him was pray, too.
So I encourage each of us to examine his or her prayer
life. And please don’t hear that as a criticism. I know some of you pray a lot. I know
some of you pray for me and for Wanda.
And we appreciate that very much. When I say “examine your prayer
life”, I’m not assuming that you need to make changes. Maybe you
don’t. I don’t know.
But what I know is that it’s rare for a human being to do
anything perfectly. And of course, that includes prayer. So again, I encourage each of us to examine
his or her prayer life. And I encourage each of us to do that using what
Paul says here as our model and our example.
Paul says we should pray frequently. In fact, Paul
uses the word “continually”. Prayer should be a constant part of our
lives. Prayer should not just be something we do when we’re in a tough
spot, or before we go to bed at night, or even before meals. There’s
nothing wrong with praying then, of course.
But we should not restrict our prayers to certain times. We should pray frequently as we go through
the day.
And what should we pray for? Knowledge of God’s
will. Wisdom and understanding from
God’s Holy Spirit. Living a life worthy of the Lord and pleasing to the
Lord. Strength from God so that we can
have patience and endurance.
And who should we pray for? Everyone that we care
about. Including ourselves. And we
should not hesitate to ask others to pray for us, too. Because we need
those things just as much as anyone else does.
It’s okay to pray for human concerns. It’s okay to
pray for good health and safety and so forth. It’s especially okay to
pray for those things when we or someone we love is facing a particularly tough
time. God hears those prayers. God
understands why we pray them. God wants
us to pray them. God wants us to tell
him anything and everything that’s on our minds. I don’t mean anything
I’ve said to be putting restrictions on what we can pray about. After all, you and I are made in God’s image. If something is important to us, it’s
important to God, too.
But we need to remember to pray for the concerns of God,
too. Because those are the things that will lead us to live a life
centered on Jesus Christ. They’re the things that will lead us to live
lives pleasing to God. And if we do
that, we’ll have shown the love for God and love for others that Jesus told us
to show.
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