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Saturday, May 13, 2017

The Rule of Love

This is the message given in the United Methodist churches of the Wheatland Parish on Sunday, May 14, 2017.  The Bible verses used are Matthew 13:10-17.


            How do you feel about rules?
            It seems to me that, a lot of times, we human beings have kind of a love/hate relationship with them.  On the one hand, we don’t like it when someone thinks they have the right to tell us what to do.  We don’t like rules that keep us from doing the things we want to do.  We don’t like rules that seem unfair to us.
            And we really don’t like it when we have to live by rules that are imposed on us by someone else.  We feel like, well, if there have to be rules, and if I have to live by them, I should at least get some say in what they are.  I should not have to live by someone else’s rules, without having any input on what those rules are going to be.
            But on the other hand, there are times when we like rules.  After all, if we were going to play a game, what’s the first thing you’d want to know?  What are the rules, right?  What am I supposed to do?  What can I not do?  Rules are necessary if we’re going to play a game, no matter what the game is.
            That’s true of all society, too.  Rules are necessary.  And we need to know what they are.  And we also need to know that there’s a penalty for breaking the rules.  We especially want to know that when someone hurts us by breaking the rules.  We want that person punished somehow, because it’s not fair.  We all need know what the rules are, and we all need to play by the same rules.
            Now, at this point you may be wondering what all this has to do with our Bible reading for today.  Our Bible reading did not say anything about rules.  Our reading was about the disciples asking Jesus why he always talked in parables, and Jesus’ response to that question.
            Well, it seems to me that when the disciples asked Jesus why he always talked in parables, what they were asking him, in effect, is, why do you beat around the bush so much?  Why don’t you just come out and say what you have to say?  Just give us the rules.  Stop telling all these stories that nobody’s really sure what they mean anyway.  Keep it simple.  Just tell us what we’re supposed to do.  Tell us how we’re supposed to live.  Tell us what the rules are, so we can follow them and keep right with you.
            And I think there are times when you and I can relate to that.  There are a lot of times when we read what Jesus said and we’re kind of left scratching our heads about it.  And it’s not just with the parables, either.  There are a lot of times when we’d like Jesus to just come out and say what he has to say.  Just tell us what to do.  Just give us the rules.  That way we can follow them and know that we’re doing what we’re supposed to do.
            Jesus does not do that, of course.  And listen to what he says it the reason why.  Jesus quotes the prophet Isaiah and says this:
You will be ever hearing but never understanding; you will be ever seeing but never perceiving.  For this people’s heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes.  Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them.
            You see, one of the things that happens when everything revolves around rules is that we never look beyond what the rules say.  We may hear the rules, but we don’t try to understand the reasons behind the rules.  We may see what the rules say, but we don’t perceive what it is the rules are supposed to accomplish.
            And that can lead to our hearts becoming calloused.  We get so worried about knowing the rules, about doing exactly what the rules say, about following them strictly and to the letter, that we don’t even think about why the rules exist and what they’re for.  We don’t even think about how our strict application of the rules could end up hurting people rather than helping them.
            Some of you may already be thinking of a few weeks ago, when we talked about Jesus breaking the Sabbath law by healing someone on the Sabbath.  The rules said you were not supposed to do any work on the Sabbath, and healing someone was work.  So, if Jesus had followed the letter of the rules, he would not have healed this person on the Sabbath day.  But Jesus knew that the loving thing to do was heal him.  Jesus knew that the Sabbath law was not intended to keep people from helping others or loving others.  As he said, the Sabbath was made for people, not people for the Sabbath.  So Jesus heard and saw the rules, but he also understood and perceived the reasons behind the rules.  And so he acted, not out of a desire to blindly follow rules, but out of a desire to fulfill the purpose behind the rules.
            That’s why Jesus often spoke in parables rather than just giving rules.  The parables he gave--the Good Samaritan, the Prodigal Son, numerous others--were examples to us.  They were examples of how to live in ways that help others and that show love to others.  Jesus did not want us to live our lives in slavish obedience to a set of rules.  He wanted us to live our lives out of love--love for God and love for other people.
            And think about this.  Once we have a set of rules, what’s one of the first things people do?  They try to figure out ways to get around them, right?  They look for loopholes.  They try to figure out ways they can use the rules to their advantage, and often to use them to the disadvantage of someone else.
            That happened in Jesus’ time.  They started out with the Ten Commandments.  Simple.  Ten easy rules for everyone to remember.  And then people started to look for ways around them.  And pretty soon there had to be interpretations, and definitions, and judgments, and before long there were so many rules nobody could even remember them all, much less obey them.
            It’s the same thing with the government.  We started out with the Constitution.  Simple.  Fit on one page.  Now, there are so many laws and rules and regulations and interpretations you would not be able to fit them all into this sanctuary, at least not if you put them on shelves and left enough room for people to walk between them.  It is literally impossible for anyone to know all the law that there is in this country.  There’s just too much of it.
            And it’s the same in the United Methodist church.  Our governing document is called the Book of Discipline.  This is the 1892 version.  Small.  Simple.  Compact.  This is the 2012 version.  Three times as many pages.  Bigger pages.  And this does not even include the Book of Resolutions, which is two or three times bigger than the Book of Discipline.
            In fact, remember what prompted Jesus to tell the parable of the Good Samaritan?  A guy comes up to Jesus wanting to know what he had to do to inherit eternal life.  In other words, he wanted to know the rules.  Jesus says to him, basically, you know the rules as well as I do.  What do they say?  And the guy recites them.  Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and love your neighbor as yourself.  And Jesus says, see, you already know the rules.  And the guy then asks, “And who is my neighbor?”  
            Looking for loopholes.  We’re all looking for loopholes.  This guy was hoping Jesus would give him a list of rules.  That way, he could figure out how he could get around them, doing what he wanted to do while still technically obeying those rules.  But Jesus did not give him a list of rules.  Jesus gave him one rule--the rule of love.
            There are no loopholes in the rule of love.  Jesus does not allow them.  Jesus tells us to love even our enemies.  Jesus tells us love people who curse us.  Jesus tells us to love people who persecute us.  There are never any exceptions to Jesus’ rule of love.  There is never a time when Jesus tells us that it’s okay for us not to love someone.  Every time someone asks Jesus a question about what they should do, how they should act, how they should live, Jesus’ answer is always love.
And notice something else.  Jesus’ rule of love is personal.  It’s something that each of us is supposed to do personally.  Jesus never gives us an example where we can shift the responsibility to love someone over to someone else.  Jesus never gives us an example where we can pay someone else to show love in our place.  Jesus never gives us an example where we can encourage someone else to show love for us.  Jesus law of love applies to each of us directly.  Each of us needs to show love ourselves.  No exceptions.
            Jesus did not want us to be rule-keepers.  And he certainly did not want us to be loophole-seekers.  So, Jesus did not give us a list of rules.  Jesus gave us examples to live up to.  Jesus gave us stories to show us how to live in the rule of love.

            So let’s not be hearing but not understanding.  Let’s not be seeing but not perceiving.  Let’s not let our hearts become calloused.  Instead, let’s follow Jesus’ rule of love.  Let’s see with our eyes, hear with our ears, and understand with our hearts.  Then, we can truly call ourselves followers of Jesus Christ.

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