It's July. July is kind of the heart of summer. We've had a jam-packed June and we're planning for a really active August. So July is the time we can all relax and take a little bit of a breath.
That does not mean nothing is happening in the Wheatland Parish, however. In fact, there will be quite a few things happening. In Gettysburg, especially, we'll be starting the work of raising money to build a new addition to the church. That means we'll be having meetings of the Building Committee and of the Fundraising Committee. Those committees will not do their work alone. They want and need your input. If the new addition is going to happen, it's going to take everybody working together to make it happen.
The new addition in Gettysburg is not the only thing going on in the parish, though. We'll continue to have our Wednesday worship services in Gettysburg throughout the summer. In Onida, we'll continue to recruit people to work with our new audio/visual equipment, and we'll also learn more about what it can do. In all three churches, we'll continue to work on mission projects. In other words, it may be the middle of summer, but there are still plenty of things going on in our parish.
That's a good thing. As Christians, we've been given a big job. Jesus told us to go and make disciples of all nations. We're supposed to baptize them and teach them what Jesus taught us. That means we need to teach them to love God and love each other. The best way for us to do that, of course, is for us to model the love of God and the love of others in our everyday lives.
We're not supposed to take a vacation from that. Yes, Jesus spent some time apart, by himself, but Jesus did not spend that time lying on the beach listening to the ball game on the radio. He spent that time in meditation and in prayer. He used that time to get closer to God.
Now, I'm not saying we can't take a vacation. What I'm saying is that, even when we're on vacation, we're still Christians. If we're on vacation with our kids, we need to use that time to teach them more about God. When we're on the road, we need to model Christian behavior, even when we're with strangers.
We also need to keep our minds and our hearts open to God's leading. We never know when God might place a hurting person in our path, someone who desperately needs to hear an encouraging word or to know that someone cares. That can happen when we're on vacation, when we're at the ball game, when we're at the convenience store, or when we're at work. It can happen at any time and at any place. The smile we give someone, the minute or two of conversation, the acknowledgment that there is a real person behind the cash register, can turn someone's day around. It might even turn someone's life around.
It's okay to have some fun and enjoy the summer. That's one of the reasons God gave it to us. But even when we're on vacation, we are still God's people on God's earth. When we go on vacation, let's make sure we take our faith in God with us.
Monday, July 15, 2013
Sunday, July 14, 2013
In the First Place
This is the message given in the Wheatland Parish Sunday, July 14, 2013. The Bible verses are 1 Corinthians 15:1-26.
As we continue our Hymn Hysteria sermon series, we look today at “Because He Lives”. As with the other songs we've looked at so far, Because He Lives made it to the Elite Eight of our bracket challenge, defeating Standing on the Promises, Trust and Obey, and He Leadeth Me.
Because He Lives is one of the newest songs in our hymnal. It was written in 1971 by Bill and Gloria Gaither. Many of you probably know who they are. Bill Gaither was born in 1936, Gloria in 1942, and they married in 1962. They've written many hymns over the years, including three others that are in our hymnal: There's Something About That Name, He Touched Me, and Something Beautiful. In fact, “He Touched Me” is one we're going to be looking at in a few weeks, because it made the Final Four.
The Gaithers wrote 'Because He Lives” at a time when they were expecting a child. They were going through a tough time in their lives, and they started thinking about all the problems in the world and how hard it cam be to raise a child the way things are now. The Gaithers believe God gave them the words to this song as a message of hope that, no matter how bad the world gets, we can still always face tomorrow, because Jesus is not dead. He lives.
And you know, if we were to try to boil down our Christian faith to one thing, that just might be it. Jesus lives. Jesus died on a cross, he was buried, and he rose from the dead. In doing that, he conquered death not just for himself, but for all of us, too.
The Apostle Paul, in our reading from First Corinthians, said this was “of first importance: that Christ died for us, according to the Scriptures, that he was raised on the third day, according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared” to the disciples and others. The reason this is of first importance is not because nothing else about our faith is important. It's because unless this is true, nothing else about our faith matters. If Jesus was not raised from the dead, then he is not the Son of God. He's just this guy. A good guy, maybe, a guy who helped some people, a guy who said some good things, but still, he's just this guy. If Jesus is just this guy, then the stuff he said is just advice, which we're free to accept or ignore, whatever we want to do.
In fact, Paul takes it even further than that. Paul says if Jesus is just this guy, then he has no power to forgive sins. If Jesus is just this guy, our faith is for nothing, because we still have to deal with all the consequences of our life of sin. In fact, Paul says, if Jesus was not raised from the dead, if he's just this guy, then we deserve pity, because we've put our faith in a lie.
It can be easy, sometimes, to start wondering if we've put our faith in a lie. We look at the world, the way the Gaithers did forty years ago, and we wonder. A lot of people would say things have gotten worse since then. We wonder what good our Christian faith is doing. We wonder what real difference in makes if we believe or not.
We wonder that about our own lives, too, sometimes. You know, when I was younger, I used to think that everyone else had their life together, and that I was the only one who did not. I've come to find out that almost everyone has some kind of struggle in their life. If it's not us personally, it's people we know. We deal with the struggles of life, and we think “what good is my faith doing? I have all these problems. The people I care about have all these problems. I pray to God, and I try to trust God, and yet, the problems don't go away. And if one does happen to go away, here come three more to take its place. What good is it doing me to believe in Christ as my Savior?”
And I think the reason we like this song so much is that it recognizes that. It does not claim that faith in God will solve all our problems. It does not claim that believing in Jesus as our Savior is going to give us an easy life.
What it does, though, is say that our faith will help us deal with the problems and the struggles of life. It says, “Think about who Jesus is. He came to love, heal, and forgive. He lived and died so our sins would be forgiven. The empty grave is proof of that.”
Then it says what's really the key to the song. It says that, because we believe in Jesus as our Savior, we can face whatever tomorrow brings, good or bad. It says that we can face it without having to be afraid. Because we believe in Jesus as our Savior, we know the future is in God's hands. And knowing that makes our lives worth living, even while we deal with all our problems.
That's true from the first day of our lives to the last. A newborn baby is an incredible wealth of possibility. That child could grow up to cure cancer, or to solve poverty, or to do all sorts of incredible, wonderful things. Yes, there are bad things that could happen to that child, too, and the song recognizes that. But it says that the child will be able to face the uncertainty of life through belief in Jesus Christ as his or her Savior. All of us can face our uncertain days, because Jesus lives.
The song also recognizes that, no matter what happens, no matter what we do in our lives, good or bad, there will come a time when our lives come to an end. One day, we'll fight the final war with pain, at least in this life. Death is an uncertainty, too. None of us can prove what happens to us when we die. But just as we face the uncertainty of life through belief in Jesus Christ as our Savior, we can also face the uncertainty of death through belief in Jesus Christ as our Savior. Again, Jesus holds the future. Through our faith, we will someday see Jesus in his full glory.
You know, this is really an incredibly simple song. You know how many words are in each verse? About thirty-two. There are about that same number in the chorus. It's not a hard song to memorize. In fact, I'll bet a lot of us could sing the chorus and at least some of the verses from memory..
And I'd encourage you to do just that. If you don't want to sing it, then say it. When you start to feel like the world is beyond hope, go back to the words of this song. When you start to feel overwhelmed by the problems of your life, go back to the words of this song. When you start to feel afraid, when you feel like you cannot face another day, go back to the words of this song.
Think about how Jesus lived and why Jesus died. Think about how Jesus conquered death, not just for himself, but for all of us. Think about that empty grave, the proof that Jesus Christ, our Savior, lives. And remember that because he lives, we can face the future without fear. Jesus holds the future. Our lives will always be worth living because Jesus Christ, our Savior, lives.
As we continue our Hymn Hysteria sermon series, we look today at “Because He Lives”. As with the other songs we've looked at so far, Because He Lives made it to the Elite Eight of our bracket challenge, defeating Standing on the Promises, Trust and Obey, and He Leadeth Me.
Because He Lives is one of the newest songs in our hymnal. It was written in 1971 by Bill and Gloria Gaither. Many of you probably know who they are. Bill Gaither was born in 1936, Gloria in 1942, and they married in 1962. They've written many hymns over the years, including three others that are in our hymnal: There's Something About That Name, He Touched Me, and Something Beautiful. In fact, “He Touched Me” is one we're going to be looking at in a few weeks, because it made the Final Four.
The Gaithers wrote 'Because He Lives” at a time when they were expecting a child. They were going through a tough time in their lives, and they started thinking about all the problems in the world and how hard it cam be to raise a child the way things are now. The Gaithers believe God gave them the words to this song as a message of hope that, no matter how bad the world gets, we can still always face tomorrow, because Jesus is not dead. He lives.
And you know, if we were to try to boil down our Christian faith to one thing, that just might be it. Jesus lives. Jesus died on a cross, he was buried, and he rose from the dead. In doing that, he conquered death not just for himself, but for all of us, too.
The Apostle Paul, in our reading from First Corinthians, said this was “of first importance: that Christ died for us, according to the Scriptures, that he was raised on the third day, according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared” to the disciples and others. The reason this is of first importance is not because nothing else about our faith is important. It's because unless this is true, nothing else about our faith matters. If Jesus was not raised from the dead, then he is not the Son of God. He's just this guy. A good guy, maybe, a guy who helped some people, a guy who said some good things, but still, he's just this guy. If Jesus is just this guy, then the stuff he said is just advice, which we're free to accept or ignore, whatever we want to do.
In fact, Paul takes it even further than that. Paul says if Jesus is just this guy, then he has no power to forgive sins. If Jesus is just this guy, our faith is for nothing, because we still have to deal with all the consequences of our life of sin. In fact, Paul says, if Jesus was not raised from the dead, if he's just this guy, then we deserve pity, because we've put our faith in a lie.
It can be easy, sometimes, to start wondering if we've put our faith in a lie. We look at the world, the way the Gaithers did forty years ago, and we wonder. A lot of people would say things have gotten worse since then. We wonder what good our Christian faith is doing. We wonder what real difference in makes if we believe or not.
We wonder that about our own lives, too, sometimes. You know, when I was younger, I used to think that everyone else had their life together, and that I was the only one who did not. I've come to find out that almost everyone has some kind of struggle in their life. If it's not us personally, it's people we know. We deal with the struggles of life, and we think “what good is my faith doing? I have all these problems. The people I care about have all these problems. I pray to God, and I try to trust God, and yet, the problems don't go away. And if one does happen to go away, here come three more to take its place. What good is it doing me to believe in Christ as my Savior?”
And I think the reason we like this song so much is that it recognizes that. It does not claim that faith in God will solve all our problems. It does not claim that believing in Jesus as our Savior is going to give us an easy life.
What it does, though, is say that our faith will help us deal with the problems and the struggles of life. It says, “Think about who Jesus is. He came to love, heal, and forgive. He lived and died so our sins would be forgiven. The empty grave is proof of that.”
Then it says what's really the key to the song. It says that, because we believe in Jesus as our Savior, we can face whatever tomorrow brings, good or bad. It says that we can face it without having to be afraid. Because we believe in Jesus as our Savior, we know the future is in God's hands. And knowing that makes our lives worth living, even while we deal with all our problems.
That's true from the first day of our lives to the last. A newborn baby is an incredible wealth of possibility. That child could grow up to cure cancer, or to solve poverty, or to do all sorts of incredible, wonderful things. Yes, there are bad things that could happen to that child, too, and the song recognizes that. But it says that the child will be able to face the uncertainty of life through belief in Jesus Christ as his or her Savior. All of us can face our uncertain days, because Jesus lives.
The song also recognizes that, no matter what happens, no matter what we do in our lives, good or bad, there will come a time when our lives come to an end. One day, we'll fight the final war with pain, at least in this life. Death is an uncertainty, too. None of us can prove what happens to us when we die. But just as we face the uncertainty of life through belief in Jesus Christ as our Savior, we can also face the uncertainty of death through belief in Jesus Christ as our Savior. Again, Jesus holds the future. Through our faith, we will someday see Jesus in his full glory.
You know, this is really an incredibly simple song. You know how many words are in each verse? About thirty-two. There are about that same number in the chorus. It's not a hard song to memorize. In fact, I'll bet a lot of us could sing the chorus and at least some of the verses from memory..
And I'd encourage you to do just that. If you don't want to sing it, then say it. When you start to feel like the world is beyond hope, go back to the words of this song. When you start to feel overwhelmed by the problems of your life, go back to the words of this song. When you start to feel afraid, when you feel like you cannot face another day, go back to the words of this song.
Think about how Jesus lived and why Jesus died. Think about how Jesus conquered death, not just for himself, but for all of us. Think about that empty grave, the proof that Jesus Christ, our Savior, lives. And remember that because he lives, we can face the future without fear. Jesus holds the future. Our lives will always be worth living because Jesus Christ, our Savior, lives.
Thursday, July 11, 2013
What's the Plan?
This is the message given at the Worship on Wednesday (WOW) service in Gettysburg on July 10, 2013. The Bible verses used are Genesis 11:1-9.
The story of the Tower of Babel appears in the Bible shortly after the story of Noah, which we talked about last week. After the flood is done, we get a little bit about Noah's life after the flood, and then we get a list of the genealogy of Noah's descendants.
At this point, Noah's descendants are still all living in one area. They all speak the same language and they all have a common culture. So, they decide to build a city. And in that city, they decide to make a huge tower. The reason they want to do that, we're told, is “So that we may make a name for ourselves and not be scattered over the face of the whole earth.”
We're then told that God was not pleased with that. In fact, God was so displeased that God confused their language so nobody could understand each other. And because they could not understand each other, they all wandered off, going their separate ways. In fact, what happened was exactly what the people had not wanted to happen. They were scattered over the face of the earth.
I read that, and I wonder, what were these people doing that was so terrible? I mean, really, think about it. They wanted to make a name for themselves. Is that so bad? I mean, don't most of us want to do that in some way?
I do. I think a lot of us do. We don't want our lives on earth to be meaningless. We don't want our time here to just be forgotten. We want to make a contribution. We want to make a difference. We want to create something that will last. Most of us would like to be remembered for something or other after we're gone. What's so wrong about that?
And as for not wanting to be scattered all over, that does not seem so bad, either. I don't know about you, but I wish I had more family that was close. My parents live in Armour, four hours away. That's not so bad, but it would nice if they were closer. The brother that lives closest to me lives in Ashland, Nebraska, eight hours away. My other brother lives in Blacksburg, Virginia. I have cousins scattered from Georgia to California. I wish we were not so scattered. Why is that a bad thing? Why was God so upset with people for wanting things that seem like pretty natural things to want?
Now, sometimes, when we hear this story explained, we hear it said that the plan to build the Tower of Babel is an example of human arrogance. That's why God was mad at humanity, for what they were doing. God was punishing humans for their pride and arrogance.
When you read the story, though, that's really not what it seems to say. In the first place, God does not really seem to be mad at humanity at all. God does not say that what the people planned to do was evil. God does not say people needed to be punished for their sins. God does not even say the people sinned.
Listen to what God actually says: “If as one people speaking the same language they have begun to do this, then nothing they plan to do will be impossible for them.” That's why God stopped the building of the tower. It was not because people had sinned. It was because God was afraid humans would become too powerful.
But what's the problem with that? What's so wrong with humans working together to accomplish stuff? Was God just jealous? Was God thinking that if humans were allowed to get too powerful, we would not need God any more?
Well, I suppose it's possible. We're told in the Old Testament that God is a jealous God. That's really not what that means, though. If God could be jealous of mere human beings, then that would indicate that God is not really the all-powerful God we think God is. There is no power we humans have, and nothing we can do, that does not come from God. If God could be jealous of mere human power, God would not be worthy of our worship.
I think the reason God was afraid humans would become too powerful is that we would not know what to do with that power. Our power would be greater than our wisdom. That's the problem God was worried about. Power with wisdom can do great and wonderful things. But power without wisdom can do terrible and tragic things.
And those things are not necessarily done with evil intent. They can be, but not necessarily. I'll bet we can all think of situations where someone tried to help us, and they had the best of intentions, but they did not really know how to help, and so just made matters worse. Maybe we've even done that ourselves. When our power is greater than our wisdom, it can lead to terrible problems, even when we're only trying to help.
The people in this story had a plan. It was not an evil plan. It was not a sinful plan. But it was not God's plan. And so, even though it was not an evil, sinful plan, it was not the right plan, either.
The people wanted to stay where they were. They wanted to build a city with a big tower and just stay there, admiring what they'd done. That was not what God wanted for them. God had told Noah and his family to be fruitful and increase in number and fill the earth. God did not want humanity to just stay in one spot. God wanted people to go out into the entire creation God had made. That was God's plan for the people. And God did what was necessary to make that plan come about. After God confused the language, we're told, “From there the Lord scattered them over the face of the whole earth.”
God was not afraid that we would not need God any more. But I think God may have realized that, when humans have too much power, we think we don't need God any more. We think we can do things our own way. We think that our wisdom is as great as our power. And every time we think that, we get ourselves into trouble.
I think that's something for us to remember in our lives. All of us, as we go through our lives, make plans. They're not bad plans, most likely. They're not evil, sinful plans. But sometimes, they're not God's plans. They're not made with God's wisdom. And so, even though they're not bad plans, they're not the right plans, either.
But the thing is that, sometimes, we decide to rely on our own power, rather than God's wisdom. When we do, we try to force things to go our way. We try to force our plans to work. We have the power to do things our way, but we don't have the wisdom to make our plans the right plans. And so, with the best of intentions, we make things worse. And in fact, sometimes trying to force things to go our way can lead to terrible and tragic things. Those terrible and tragic things can not just affect us, but can affect others as well.
It's okay to make plans. In fact, we pretty much have to. It would be almost impossible for us to go through life with no plan whatsoever, and it probably would not be a good idea if we did.
But when we make our plans, we need to keep God in mind. We need to pray. We need to ask for God's help and for God's guidance. We need to do everything we can to make sure our plans are the same as God's plans. And if it turns out that they're not, we need to be willing to change our plans so that they are the same as God's plans.
God had a plan for Noah's descendants, and it did not involve staying in one place and building a tower. It involved going out and spreading all over the wonderful, incredible earth that God had created. That was God's plan, made with God's wisdom. And God did what God needed to do to make sure that it was God's plan that got carried out.
God has a plan for you, too. And God has a plan for me. It's God's plan, made with God's wisdom. Sometimes, we think we know what that plan is. Sometimes we don't. Sometimes we think we know what the plan is, only to find out that we were wrong.
We can try to force our plans through, but it usually does not work. We can try to rely on our own power, but we're a lot better off when we rely on God's wisdom. When we go along with God's plans, made with God's wisdom, it pretty much always works.
So let's make sure, as we go through our lives, that we spend some time in prayer. Let's spend some time asking God what God's plans are. Then, let's pay attention, so we can get the answer. That way, we'll rely on God's wisdom and follow God's plans. And then, we'll be doing what God wants us to do.
The story of the Tower of Babel appears in the Bible shortly after the story of Noah, which we talked about last week. After the flood is done, we get a little bit about Noah's life after the flood, and then we get a list of the genealogy of Noah's descendants.
At this point, Noah's descendants are still all living in one area. They all speak the same language and they all have a common culture. So, they decide to build a city. And in that city, they decide to make a huge tower. The reason they want to do that, we're told, is “So that we may make a name for ourselves and not be scattered over the face of the whole earth.”
We're then told that God was not pleased with that. In fact, God was so displeased that God confused their language so nobody could understand each other. And because they could not understand each other, they all wandered off, going their separate ways. In fact, what happened was exactly what the people had not wanted to happen. They were scattered over the face of the earth.
I read that, and I wonder, what were these people doing that was so terrible? I mean, really, think about it. They wanted to make a name for themselves. Is that so bad? I mean, don't most of us want to do that in some way?
I do. I think a lot of us do. We don't want our lives on earth to be meaningless. We don't want our time here to just be forgotten. We want to make a contribution. We want to make a difference. We want to create something that will last. Most of us would like to be remembered for something or other after we're gone. What's so wrong about that?
And as for not wanting to be scattered all over, that does not seem so bad, either. I don't know about you, but I wish I had more family that was close. My parents live in Armour, four hours away. That's not so bad, but it would nice if they were closer. The brother that lives closest to me lives in Ashland, Nebraska, eight hours away. My other brother lives in Blacksburg, Virginia. I have cousins scattered from Georgia to California. I wish we were not so scattered. Why is that a bad thing? Why was God so upset with people for wanting things that seem like pretty natural things to want?
Now, sometimes, when we hear this story explained, we hear it said that the plan to build the Tower of Babel is an example of human arrogance. That's why God was mad at humanity, for what they were doing. God was punishing humans for their pride and arrogance.
When you read the story, though, that's really not what it seems to say. In the first place, God does not really seem to be mad at humanity at all. God does not say that what the people planned to do was evil. God does not say people needed to be punished for their sins. God does not even say the people sinned.
Listen to what God actually says: “If as one people speaking the same language they have begun to do this, then nothing they plan to do will be impossible for them.” That's why God stopped the building of the tower. It was not because people had sinned. It was because God was afraid humans would become too powerful.
But what's the problem with that? What's so wrong with humans working together to accomplish stuff? Was God just jealous? Was God thinking that if humans were allowed to get too powerful, we would not need God any more?
Well, I suppose it's possible. We're told in the Old Testament that God is a jealous God. That's really not what that means, though. If God could be jealous of mere human beings, then that would indicate that God is not really the all-powerful God we think God is. There is no power we humans have, and nothing we can do, that does not come from God. If God could be jealous of mere human power, God would not be worthy of our worship.
I think the reason God was afraid humans would become too powerful is that we would not know what to do with that power. Our power would be greater than our wisdom. That's the problem God was worried about. Power with wisdom can do great and wonderful things. But power without wisdom can do terrible and tragic things.
And those things are not necessarily done with evil intent. They can be, but not necessarily. I'll bet we can all think of situations where someone tried to help us, and they had the best of intentions, but they did not really know how to help, and so just made matters worse. Maybe we've even done that ourselves. When our power is greater than our wisdom, it can lead to terrible problems, even when we're only trying to help.
The people in this story had a plan. It was not an evil plan. It was not a sinful plan. But it was not God's plan. And so, even though it was not an evil, sinful plan, it was not the right plan, either.
The people wanted to stay where they were. They wanted to build a city with a big tower and just stay there, admiring what they'd done. That was not what God wanted for them. God had told Noah and his family to be fruitful and increase in number and fill the earth. God did not want humanity to just stay in one spot. God wanted people to go out into the entire creation God had made. That was God's plan for the people. And God did what was necessary to make that plan come about. After God confused the language, we're told, “From there the Lord scattered them over the face of the whole earth.”
God was not afraid that we would not need God any more. But I think God may have realized that, when humans have too much power, we think we don't need God any more. We think we can do things our own way. We think that our wisdom is as great as our power. And every time we think that, we get ourselves into trouble.
I think that's something for us to remember in our lives. All of us, as we go through our lives, make plans. They're not bad plans, most likely. They're not evil, sinful plans. But sometimes, they're not God's plans. They're not made with God's wisdom. And so, even though they're not bad plans, they're not the right plans, either.
But the thing is that, sometimes, we decide to rely on our own power, rather than God's wisdom. When we do, we try to force things to go our way. We try to force our plans to work. We have the power to do things our way, but we don't have the wisdom to make our plans the right plans. And so, with the best of intentions, we make things worse. And in fact, sometimes trying to force things to go our way can lead to terrible and tragic things. Those terrible and tragic things can not just affect us, but can affect others as well.
It's okay to make plans. In fact, we pretty much have to. It would be almost impossible for us to go through life with no plan whatsoever, and it probably would not be a good idea if we did.
But when we make our plans, we need to keep God in mind. We need to pray. We need to ask for God's help and for God's guidance. We need to do everything we can to make sure our plans are the same as God's plans. And if it turns out that they're not, we need to be willing to change our plans so that they are the same as God's plans.
God had a plan for Noah's descendants, and it did not involve staying in one place and building a tower. It involved going out and spreading all over the wonderful, incredible earth that God had created. That was God's plan, made with God's wisdom. And God did what God needed to do to make sure that it was God's plan that got carried out.
God has a plan for you, too. And God has a plan for me. It's God's plan, made with God's wisdom. Sometimes, we think we know what that plan is. Sometimes we don't. Sometimes we think we know what the plan is, only to find out that we were wrong.
We can try to force our plans through, but it usually does not work. We can try to rely on our own power, but we're a lot better off when we rely on God's wisdom. When we go along with God's plans, made with God's wisdom, it pretty much always works.
So let's make sure, as we go through our lives, that we spend some time in prayer. Let's spend some time asking God what God's plans are. Then, let's pay attention, so we can get the answer. That way, we'll rely on God's wisdom and follow God's plans. And then, we'll be doing what God wants us to do.
Sunday, July 7, 2013
Don't Settle
Below is the message given in the Wheatland Parish Sunday, July 7, 2013. The Bible verses used are Jeremiah 18:1-10.
Today we're getting back into our Hymn Hysteria sermon series with a look at the hymn we just sang, “Have Thine Own Way, Lord.” It got to the Elite Eight of our bracket contest, defeating “Shall We Gather at the River”, “Hymn of Promise”, and “Stand Up for Jesus.”
The words to this hymn were written by Adelaide A. Pollard in 1902. Adelaide A. Pollard was actually born as Sarah Addison Pollard, and was born in Bloomfield, Iowa. She did not care for the name Sarah, and eventually adopted the name of Adelaide. She was a very humble woman—there are no pictures of her that I could find, and she often would not even put her name on the hymns or poems she wrote. She attended Moody Bible Institute in Chicago, and eventually went to New York, where she trained to be a missionary.
She wanted to do mission work in Africa, but did not have the money to get there. She was at a prayer service one evening and heard an elderly woman say, "It really doesn't matter what you do with us, Lord, just have your own way with our lives.” That reminded her of Jeremiah 18:6, where God says, “Can I not do with you, house of Israel, as this potter does? Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, house of Israel.” She is said to have written over a hundred other hymns, but this is the only one that really became famous, and it remains prominent until this day.
The tune was added in 1907 by George C. Stebbins, who also had a connection to the Moody Institute and was a well-known Christian musician and song-writer in his day. Mr. Stebbins also wrote the tune to “Take Time to Be Holy”, which of course is also in our hymnal.
In looking at why we like “Have Thine Own Way, Lord”, it's interesting to look at the passage that Ms. Pollard based her poem on. In that reading, God, speaking through Jeremiah, says, “I will have my own way. I am the potter. You are just clay in my hands. What I say goes. When I say a nation or kingdom is going to be destroyed, then it will be destroyed unless it does something to make me change my mind. And when I say a nation or kingdom is going to be built, up, then it is going to be built up unless it does something to make me change my mind. Things happen the way I say they happen, and that's it.”
The passage from Jeremiah is a statement from God, a warning about God's power. That's power God just has, because God is God. God does not ask for permission to use that power. God does not care whether we mere human beings like it if God uses that power. God is not interested in our opinion as to how God uses God's power. The way God comes across in Jeremiah is that God will use God's power in whatever way God thinks it should be used, and so the kingdoms and nations had better be careful. If those kingdoms and nations get on God's bad side, God will use God's power in a way that may be fair and just, but it's a way that the kingdoms and nations won't like very much.
That's not what the hymn says, though. The hymn invites God to have God's way. It asks God to have God's way. It wants God to use God's power. And it does not talk about nations or kingdoms. It talks about individuals. It says “I am the clay. Mold me. Make me. I'll just humbly and quietly wait for you to do whatever you want to do. You have the power. Use it however you want to.” The hymn begs God to take control of our lives, to fill us so full of the Holy Spirit that everyone can see Jesus Christ living in us.
And I think that's why the hymn is so popular. We know that's what we're supposed to do. We know that's how we're supposed to feel. The song tells us the way Christians are supposed to be. We're supposed to give up our own wants and desires and be totally submissive to God and God's will.
We read that in other places in the Bible, of course. The prime example of it is Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane, knowing that he's about to be arrest and tortured and killed, not wanting to go through that any more than anyone else would, but knowing that it's God will that he go through it, and so saying to the Father, “Not my will, but your will be done.” It's what we pray every week in the Lord's Prayer: “Thy kingdom come, thy will be done.” We know this is the attitude were supposed to have, where we put our own will aside and simply go where God wants us to go and do what God wants us to do.
If only it was that simple. Well, that's not really the right way to put it. It is that simple. It's just not easy. It's not that it's a hard thing to understand. It's that it's a hard thing for us to actually do.
Think about it. What would it mean for your life, or for my life, if God molded us and made us after God's will? What would happen if we simply waited, yielded and still, for God to do with us whatever God wanted to do? What would we be doing right now if God held absolute control, “absolute sway” as the song puts it, over my life or your life? What would it be like if we were so full of the Holy Spirit that everyone could see Jesus Christ, only and always, living in us?
These are not just rhetorical questions. They're questions we need to ask ourselves. When we sing this song, “Have Thine Own Way, Lord”, we need to ask ourselves if we really mean it. Do we really want God to have God's way with our lives? Or is it just a nice thought, something that sounds good, but something we're not going to really do anything about?
It's an important question. The reason it's so important is that when we pray this with honest and sincere hearts, God will answer it. When we come to God openly, honestly, emptied of all of our selfish wants and desires to the extent that's possible, and truly ask God to take control of our lives, God will do just that.
And from there, we never know what might happen. For Adelaide Pollard, it led her, not to Africa where she wanted to go, but to Scotland, where she did missionary work after World War I. It led a lawyer in Wessington Springs to become a United Methodist pastor in the Wheatland Parish. That's not to say that I always open myself up to God that way, because a lot of times I don't. The one time I did, though, God took me in a direction I never thought I would go.
And that's the thing. We don't have to do this perfectly. We don't have to do this all the time. That's the goal, of course. That's what we're trying to do. But even if we don't, even if we just do it once in a while—in fact, even if we just do it once—God will use that one time to completely change our lives.
Adelaide Potter wrote these words when she was going through what she termed a “distress of soul”. And sometimes, that's what it takes for us to really give God control of our lives. When things are going well, or even when things are not going exceptionally well but just kind of okay, we tend to not want to make any changes. We don't want to rock the boat, or upset the apple cart, or whatever other cliché you want to use. Sometimes it takes being miserable, feeling depressed, feeling that “distress of soul” Adelaide Pollard felt, before we're really willing to turn our lives over to God.
That's understandable. I'm sure God understands it, too. But it's sad. It's sad because it shows a lack of trust in God. It shows that we don't have enough faith in God to believe we could have something better, to believe that God wants us to have something better, that God wants us to be something better.
It's not sad because we're hurting God. It's sad because we're hurting ourselves. When we don't give control of our lives to God, we don't become everything God wants us to become. We settle for “okay”, for “good enough”, for “could be worse”, rather than having the full, satisfying lives God wants us to have.
After all, we say God loves us, right? We believe that, don't we? If God loves us, then God must want what's best for us, right? So, if we give God control of our lives, then it only makes sense that God will lead us to what's best for us, to what will make us the people God wants us to be, the people God created us to be. That's an awesome thing to think about.
We don't have to settle for less. The only reason we settle for less is because that's the choice we are making. The only reason we settle for less is because we don't trust God enough to give control of our lives to God. So let's not settle any more. Let's come to God openly and honestly. Let's empty ourselves of all of our selfish wants and desires. Instead, let's ask God to have God's way with us. We may not know what will happen when we do. But if we trust God, we know it'll be something incredible.
Today we're getting back into our Hymn Hysteria sermon series with a look at the hymn we just sang, “Have Thine Own Way, Lord.” It got to the Elite Eight of our bracket contest, defeating “Shall We Gather at the River”, “Hymn of Promise”, and “Stand Up for Jesus.”
The words to this hymn were written by Adelaide A. Pollard in 1902. Adelaide A. Pollard was actually born as Sarah Addison Pollard, and was born in Bloomfield, Iowa. She did not care for the name Sarah, and eventually adopted the name of Adelaide. She was a very humble woman—there are no pictures of her that I could find, and she often would not even put her name on the hymns or poems she wrote. She attended Moody Bible Institute in Chicago, and eventually went to New York, where she trained to be a missionary.
She wanted to do mission work in Africa, but did not have the money to get there. She was at a prayer service one evening and heard an elderly woman say, "It really doesn't matter what you do with us, Lord, just have your own way with our lives.” That reminded her of Jeremiah 18:6, where God says, “Can I not do with you, house of Israel, as this potter does? Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, house of Israel.” She is said to have written over a hundred other hymns, but this is the only one that really became famous, and it remains prominent until this day.
The tune was added in 1907 by George C. Stebbins, who also had a connection to the Moody Institute and was a well-known Christian musician and song-writer in his day. Mr. Stebbins also wrote the tune to “Take Time to Be Holy”, which of course is also in our hymnal.
In looking at why we like “Have Thine Own Way, Lord”, it's interesting to look at the passage that Ms. Pollard based her poem on. In that reading, God, speaking through Jeremiah, says, “I will have my own way. I am the potter. You are just clay in my hands. What I say goes. When I say a nation or kingdom is going to be destroyed, then it will be destroyed unless it does something to make me change my mind. And when I say a nation or kingdom is going to be built, up, then it is going to be built up unless it does something to make me change my mind. Things happen the way I say they happen, and that's it.”
The passage from Jeremiah is a statement from God, a warning about God's power. That's power God just has, because God is God. God does not ask for permission to use that power. God does not care whether we mere human beings like it if God uses that power. God is not interested in our opinion as to how God uses God's power. The way God comes across in Jeremiah is that God will use God's power in whatever way God thinks it should be used, and so the kingdoms and nations had better be careful. If those kingdoms and nations get on God's bad side, God will use God's power in a way that may be fair and just, but it's a way that the kingdoms and nations won't like very much.
That's not what the hymn says, though. The hymn invites God to have God's way. It asks God to have God's way. It wants God to use God's power. And it does not talk about nations or kingdoms. It talks about individuals. It says “I am the clay. Mold me. Make me. I'll just humbly and quietly wait for you to do whatever you want to do. You have the power. Use it however you want to.” The hymn begs God to take control of our lives, to fill us so full of the Holy Spirit that everyone can see Jesus Christ living in us.
And I think that's why the hymn is so popular. We know that's what we're supposed to do. We know that's how we're supposed to feel. The song tells us the way Christians are supposed to be. We're supposed to give up our own wants and desires and be totally submissive to God and God's will.
We read that in other places in the Bible, of course. The prime example of it is Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane, knowing that he's about to be arrest and tortured and killed, not wanting to go through that any more than anyone else would, but knowing that it's God will that he go through it, and so saying to the Father, “Not my will, but your will be done.” It's what we pray every week in the Lord's Prayer: “Thy kingdom come, thy will be done.” We know this is the attitude were supposed to have, where we put our own will aside and simply go where God wants us to go and do what God wants us to do.
If only it was that simple. Well, that's not really the right way to put it. It is that simple. It's just not easy. It's not that it's a hard thing to understand. It's that it's a hard thing for us to actually do.
Think about it. What would it mean for your life, or for my life, if God molded us and made us after God's will? What would happen if we simply waited, yielded and still, for God to do with us whatever God wanted to do? What would we be doing right now if God held absolute control, “absolute sway” as the song puts it, over my life or your life? What would it be like if we were so full of the Holy Spirit that everyone could see Jesus Christ, only and always, living in us?
These are not just rhetorical questions. They're questions we need to ask ourselves. When we sing this song, “Have Thine Own Way, Lord”, we need to ask ourselves if we really mean it. Do we really want God to have God's way with our lives? Or is it just a nice thought, something that sounds good, but something we're not going to really do anything about?
It's an important question. The reason it's so important is that when we pray this with honest and sincere hearts, God will answer it. When we come to God openly, honestly, emptied of all of our selfish wants and desires to the extent that's possible, and truly ask God to take control of our lives, God will do just that.
And from there, we never know what might happen. For Adelaide Pollard, it led her, not to Africa where she wanted to go, but to Scotland, where she did missionary work after World War I. It led a lawyer in Wessington Springs to become a United Methodist pastor in the Wheatland Parish. That's not to say that I always open myself up to God that way, because a lot of times I don't. The one time I did, though, God took me in a direction I never thought I would go.
And that's the thing. We don't have to do this perfectly. We don't have to do this all the time. That's the goal, of course. That's what we're trying to do. But even if we don't, even if we just do it once in a while—in fact, even if we just do it once—God will use that one time to completely change our lives.
Adelaide Potter wrote these words when she was going through what she termed a “distress of soul”. And sometimes, that's what it takes for us to really give God control of our lives. When things are going well, or even when things are not going exceptionally well but just kind of okay, we tend to not want to make any changes. We don't want to rock the boat, or upset the apple cart, or whatever other cliché you want to use. Sometimes it takes being miserable, feeling depressed, feeling that “distress of soul” Adelaide Pollard felt, before we're really willing to turn our lives over to God.
That's understandable. I'm sure God understands it, too. But it's sad. It's sad because it shows a lack of trust in God. It shows that we don't have enough faith in God to believe we could have something better, to believe that God wants us to have something better, that God wants us to be something better.
It's not sad because we're hurting God. It's sad because we're hurting ourselves. When we don't give control of our lives to God, we don't become everything God wants us to become. We settle for “okay”, for “good enough”, for “could be worse”, rather than having the full, satisfying lives God wants us to have.
After all, we say God loves us, right? We believe that, don't we? If God loves us, then God must want what's best for us, right? So, if we give God control of our lives, then it only makes sense that God will lead us to what's best for us, to what will make us the people God wants us to be, the people God created us to be. That's an awesome thing to think about.
We don't have to settle for less. The only reason we settle for less is because that's the choice we are making. The only reason we settle for less is because we don't trust God enough to give control of our lives to God. So let's not settle any more. Let's come to God openly and honestly. Let's empty ourselves of all of our selfish wants and desires. Instead, let's ask God to have God's way with us. We may not know what will happen when we do. But if we trust God, we know it'll be something incredible.
Friday, July 5, 2013
A Tribute to Paul Nadenicek
Paul Nadenicek is my uncle. He passed away Wednesday, July 3, 2013. Below are remarks I intend to make at his funeral Saturday.
I don't know that I'm necessarily the best person in the family to do this. Obviously, we all knew Paul and have our memories of him. I'll just say a few things I'll always think of when I think of him. The first thing for a lot of us, of course, was his music, and I'll talk about that in a minute. First, though, I want to say a few other things I'll remember about him.
One thing I remember about Paul is that he loved baseball and rooted for the Minnesota Twins. That always gave us something in common to talk about, because of course I love baseball and the Twins, too. In fact, I remember when I was a little kid, Paul would always get me a spring baseball preview magazine. And of course, this was before the internet a twenty-four hour sports channels and all that, so those baseball preview magazines were a big deal. I really enjoyed them, and I appreciated Paul getting them for me.
Paul would do stuff like that, especially for his family, because his family was important to him. He was kind of the keeper of the family records, especially of his parents. But he kept up with his family, too. He wrote lots of letters. He wanted to know what everyone was doing. It was important to him to be able to do that.
Paul was a very intelligent man. He read a lot, and he read a wide variety of stuff. There were a lot of times when something would come up and he'd say, “I was reading this article the other day, and it said that...” and he'd give some little fact that I'd never known before.
He read the Bible a lot, too, of course. He studied the Bible. He could quote scripture easily. In fact, he could quote the Bible a whole lot better than I can. You give me a scripture passage, and I'm going “Uh, yeah, I think that's in the Old Testament someplace. Um, Proverbs, maybe?” Paul would say, “That's Proverbs 21:9. But what it actually says is...” and then he'd go on to quote the verse exactly—the King James Version, of course. He always wanted to read or hear the Bible in the King James Version.
Paul had a very giving spirit. He gave what he could give. Sometimes it might be a small thing, because he never had a whole lot of money. Other times, it might be giving of his service or of his talent. But he wanted to give. He enjoyed giving.
And that brings me to Paul's love of music, and especially of the guitar. I don't think Paul was ever happier than when he had the guitar in his hands and could make music. Music was his passion. Times when he'd come to visit us out on the farm, he'd usually bring a guitar with him and play something for us. If he did not bring the guitar, he'd play something on the piano. He just loved to make music.
There were times in his life when he played for lots of people, and there were times when he played for just one. I remember a couple of years ago, shortly before we moved away from North Sioux City, I stopped to see Paul and I asked him to play something for me, because I had not heard him play for a while. He reached over, picked up the guitar, and played a piece of jazz music. I asked him what it was, and he said it was not anything. He was just making it up. That's such an amazing talent he had, to just pick up the guitar and start playing a tune on the spot like that.
I don't think it really mattered to Paul who he played for or how many there were. He just wanted to make music. That's why it was so wonderful that, in the last years of his life, he was able to sing in the church choir and play in the praise band. It meant so much to him to be able to continue to share the gift of music God had given him. I really think that's what kept him going and helped him live as long as he did.
In a sense, you could say that God put Paul on this earth to make music. That's not the only reason Paul was put on earth, of course. But what I mean is that I think, when we're really passionate about something, it's because God has put that passion into our hearts. God gave Paul a passion for music.
Paul got his first guitar on his fourteenth birthday. He kept playing the guitar almost until his ninety-fifth birthday. Think about that. That means Paul made music on the guitar for over eighty years. That is such an amazing thing. And a few days ago, not very long after Paul finally got too weak to play any more, God called Paul home.
My wife, Wanda, wrote a poem about Paul that I'd like to share with you.
Tip your hat to the man
With a guitar in his hands
Stars of heaven
With guitar number seven
His spot in church
Treasured memories perch
A helping church congregation,
Paul's passionate sensation
A man who always knew his part
Whether in praise team
Or choir to sing,
“How Great Thou Art”
The letters he wrote assert,
Family comes first
Imagine heaven's jubilee
Giving was his creed
Whether talents or time
Paul would shine
A couple of weeks ago, I got one of Paul's guitars. I cannot play the guitar, but I'm going to learn. In fact, I'm going to have my first lesson Monday. I'll never learn to play like Paul did, of course. I don't even consider that a possibility. But I'm going to learn to play a little. And when I do, I'm always going to think of Paul.
I don't know that I'm necessarily the best person in the family to do this. Obviously, we all knew Paul and have our memories of him. I'll just say a few things I'll always think of when I think of him. The first thing for a lot of us, of course, was his music, and I'll talk about that in a minute. First, though, I want to say a few other things I'll remember about him.
One thing I remember about Paul is that he loved baseball and rooted for the Minnesota Twins. That always gave us something in common to talk about, because of course I love baseball and the Twins, too. In fact, I remember when I was a little kid, Paul would always get me a spring baseball preview magazine. And of course, this was before the internet a twenty-four hour sports channels and all that, so those baseball preview magazines were a big deal. I really enjoyed them, and I appreciated Paul getting them for me.
Paul would do stuff like that, especially for his family, because his family was important to him. He was kind of the keeper of the family records, especially of his parents. But he kept up with his family, too. He wrote lots of letters. He wanted to know what everyone was doing. It was important to him to be able to do that.
Paul was a very intelligent man. He read a lot, and he read a wide variety of stuff. There were a lot of times when something would come up and he'd say, “I was reading this article the other day, and it said that...” and he'd give some little fact that I'd never known before.
He read the Bible a lot, too, of course. He studied the Bible. He could quote scripture easily. In fact, he could quote the Bible a whole lot better than I can. You give me a scripture passage, and I'm going “Uh, yeah, I think that's in the Old Testament someplace. Um, Proverbs, maybe?” Paul would say, “That's Proverbs 21:9. But what it actually says is...” and then he'd go on to quote the verse exactly—the King James Version, of course. He always wanted to read or hear the Bible in the King James Version.
Paul had a very giving spirit. He gave what he could give. Sometimes it might be a small thing, because he never had a whole lot of money. Other times, it might be giving of his service or of his talent. But he wanted to give. He enjoyed giving.
And that brings me to Paul's love of music, and especially of the guitar. I don't think Paul was ever happier than when he had the guitar in his hands and could make music. Music was his passion. Times when he'd come to visit us out on the farm, he'd usually bring a guitar with him and play something for us. If he did not bring the guitar, he'd play something on the piano. He just loved to make music.
There were times in his life when he played for lots of people, and there were times when he played for just one. I remember a couple of years ago, shortly before we moved away from North Sioux City, I stopped to see Paul and I asked him to play something for me, because I had not heard him play for a while. He reached over, picked up the guitar, and played a piece of jazz music. I asked him what it was, and he said it was not anything. He was just making it up. That's such an amazing talent he had, to just pick up the guitar and start playing a tune on the spot like that.
I don't think it really mattered to Paul who he played for or how many there were. He just wanted to make music. That's why it was so wonderful that, in the last years of his life, he was able to sing in the church choir and play in the praise band. It meant so much to him to be able to continue to share the gift of music God had given him. I really think that's what kept him going and helped him live as long as he did.
In a sense, you could say that God put Paul on this earth to make music. That's not the only reason Paul was put on earth, of course. But what I mean is that I think, when we're really passionate about something, it's because God has put that passion into our hearts. God gave Paul a passion for music.
Paul got his first guitar on his fourteenth birthday. He kept playing the guitar almost until his ninety-fifth birthday. Think about that. That means Paul made music on the guitar for over eighty years. That is such an amazing thing. And a few days ago, not very long after Paul finally got too weak to play any more, God called Paul home.
My wife, Wanda, wrote a poem about Paul that I'd like to share with you.
Tip your hat to the man
With a guitar in his hands
Stars of heaven
With guitar number seven
His spot in church
Treasured memories perch
A helping church congregation,
Paul's passionate sensation
A man who always knew his part
Whether in praise team
Or choir to sing,
“How Great Thou Art”
The letters he wrote assert,
Family comes first
Imagine heaven's jubilee
Giving was his creed
Whether talents or time
Paul would shine
A couple of weeks ago, I got one of Paul's guitars. I cannot play the guitar, but I'm going to learn. In fact, I'm going to have my first lesson Monday. I'll never learn to play like Paul did, of course. I don't even consider that a possibility. But I'm going to learn to play a little. And when I do, I'm always going to think of Paul.
Friday, June 28, 2013
Beyond the Comfort Zone
If you like country music, you've probably heard the song by Brad Paisley, “Southern Comfort Zone.” In it, he talks about the first time he left his home in the South and visited other parts of the country and the world. He talks about being surprised to learn that not everyone drives a truck or watches NASCAR. Not everybody goes to church or drinks sweet tea or does a lot of other things that he assumed everybody did because, after all, everybody he'd grown up with and lived around did those things.
It's a trap we all fall into. It's a natural human tendency for us to want to be around people who are like us. We want to be around people who are interested in the same things we're interested in. We want to be around people who like the same things we like. We want to be around people who live the same way we live.
That's not necessarily a bad thing. Where it gets us into trouble, though, is when we start to assume that everybody should be like we are. Where it gets us into trouble is when we start thinking that everybody should be interested in the things we're interested in, that everybody should like the same things we like, that everybody should live the way we live.
The reason that gets us into trouble is that if we think that way, then when we run into somebody who's interested in different things, who likes different things, who lives differently from the way we do, we automatically assume there's something wrong with them. They must be strange. They must be odd. Our ways, after all, are the right ways. Therefore, anyone who's different is doing it wrong. They have to be weird at best, if not just plain bad.
When we say it like this, it becomes obvious that this is flawed thinking. The fact that someone likes different things than we do or lives their life differently from the way we would does not make someone bad or even strange. It just makes them different from us. The problem is that we often make these assumptions unconsciously. We don't realize we've done it, so we don't see the flaw in our thinking. Instead, we come up with reasons to justify our assumptions.
Now, I want to point out two things here. One is that this is a trap I need to remind myself of, because I fall into it as easily as anyone. In fact, that's part of why I'm writing about it: to remind myself not to fall into this trap. There are lots of interests that people have, and lots of ways people live their lives, that are just as valid as the interests I have and the way I live. I need a reminder, just as much as anyone else does, that that's okay.
However, that leads me to the second thing, which is that I am not trying to say here that there are no moral absolutes. There are. There are things that are wrong at all times, and in all situations. There are things that are wrong when I do them, and wrong when you do them, and wrong when anybody else does them. I am not arguing for an “anything goes” philosophy here.
The thing is, though, that we need to be able to distinguish moral absolutes from personal preferences and choices. And that's why we need to get out of our comfort zones. That's why we need to make sure we spend some time having some meaningful interaction with people who are different from us. We need to get to know people who look at life differently from the way we do. And we need to treat them with respect.
We don't have to agree with them, but we do need to try to understand why they look at things the way they do. Doing that will help us realize that other people's beliefs, opinions, attitudes and choices are not necessarily strange or wrong just because their different. It'll help us distinguish between things that are right or wrong in all circumstances and things that are legitimate choices for people to make, even if we would not make them ourselves.
So let's try to get beyond our comfort zones. Let's try to get to know some people who look at life differently from the way we do. We'll understand them better, and they'll understand us better. And we'll all benefit from that.
It's a trap we all fall into. It's a natural human tendency for us to want to be around people who are like us. We want to be around people who are interested in the same things we're interested in. We want to be around people who like the same things we like. We want to be around people who live the same way we live.
That's not necessarily a bad thing. Where it gets us into trouble, though, is when we start to assume that everybody should be like we are. Where it gets us into trouble is when we start thinking that everybody should be interested in the things we're interested in, that everybody should like the same things we like, that everybody should live the way we live.
The reason that gets us into trouble is that if we think that way, then when we run into somebody who's interested in different things, who likes different things, who lives differently from the way we do, we automatically assume there's something wrong with them. They must be strange. They must be odd. Our ways, after all, are the right ways. Therefore, anyone who's different is doing it wrong. They have to be weird at best, if not just plain bad.
When we say it like this, it becomes obvious that this is flawed thinking. The fact that someone likes different things than we do or lives their life differently from the way we would does not make someone bad or even strange. It just makes them different from us. The problem is that we often make these assumptions unconsciously. We don't realize we've done it, so we don't see the flaw in our thinking. Instead, we come up with reasons to justify our assumptions.
Now, I want to point out two things here. One is that this is a trap I need to remind myself of, because I fall into it as easily as anyone. In fact, that's part of why I'm writing about it: to remind myself not to fall into this trap. There are lots of interests that people have, and lots of ways people live their lives, that are just as valid as the interests I have and the way I live. I need a reminder, just as much as anyone else does, that that's okay.
However, that leads me to the second thing, which is that I am not trying to say here that there are no moral absolutes. There are. There are things that are wrong at all times, and in all situations. There are things that are wrong when I do them, and wrong when you do them, and wrong when anybody else does them. I am not arguing for an “anything goes” philosophy here.
The thing is, though, that we need to be able to distinguish moral absolutes from personal preferences and choices. And that's why we need to get out of our comfort zones. That's why we need to make sure we spend some time having some meaningful interaction with people who are different from us. We need to get to know people who look at life differently from the way we do. And we need to treat them with respect.
We don't have to agree with them, but we do need to try to understand why they look at things the way they do. Doing that will help us realize that other people's beliefs, opinions, attitudes and choices are not necessarily strange or wrong just because their different. It'll help us distinguish between things that are right or wrong in all circumstances and things that are legitimate choices for people to make, even if we would not make them ourselves.
So let's try to get beyond our comfort zones. Let's try to get to know some people who look at life differently from the way we do. We'll understand them better, and they'll understand us better. And we'll all benefit from that.
Thursday, June 27, 2013
Every Storm Runs Out of Rain
This is the message given at the WOW (Worship on Wednesday) service in Gettysburg on June 26, 2013. The Bible verses are Genesis 6:9-22; 7:17-8:4; 8:14-22; 9:11-17.
Most of us have heard the story of Noah and the flood since we were little. Even if you were not raised in the church, even if you never went to Sunday school or anything, the chances are you know the basic facts of this story. God gets mad at humanity and decides to wipe it out and start over. God decides not to start completely over, though. Instead, God saves Noah and his family, and tells Noah to save two of every living thing so that after the flood, life can start over again.
Now, just as with the creation story, I don’t want to get into whether this story is literally true. Think what you want about that. To me, the more interesting question is: why is this story in the Bible? What are we supposed to learn from it? What does it tell us about God or about ourselves? What can we get from this story that will draw us closer to God or help us in our daily lives?
When we look at the story that way, it seems like we have a lot of questions. Look at what the story says. It tells us God was sorry he had created humans. It tells us God willingly and intentionally killed every human being other than Noah and his family, no matter who they were or how they lived. It tells us God willingly and intentionally killed all sorts of animals, too. It tells us God willingly and intentionally killed the birds, the lizards, everything, other than the two of each that were lucky enough to get on the ark.
How do we square that with our vision of God? After all, the one thing we probably all agree on about God, the one thing we talk about in church we all the time, is that God is love. We talk about God’s willingness to forgive us. We talk about God’s grace and mercy. Yet, in this story, God does not seem very loving or forgiving at all. God does not show much grace or mercy here. Sure, he showed it to Noah and his family, and we’re told that the reason is that Noah was a righteous man, but was Noah really the only righteous person on the face of the earth? Was there no one else on the entire earth who was doing his or her best to follow God and serve God? Were Noah and his family really the only ones worth saving? Did no one else even deserve a warning and a second chance?
If we take these Old Testament stories seriously, they raise a lot of questions for us. They make us take another look at things about our faith that we tend to take for granted. What we decide to do with stories like this has a big impact on how we see God. It especially impacts how we see God interacting with us.
You know, when we look at this story, we tend to look at it either from the point of view of either God or Noah. It seems to me, though, that you and I can probably identify a lot more with the other people on earth, the people who were killed, than we can with God or Noah. God, after all, is God: more perfect and more holy than any of us can ever imagine being. As for Noah, well, we may like to think that we’re somewhat righteous, to varying degrees, but none of us would probably claim to be the most righteous person on earth, the way Noah appears to have been.
When it comes to the others, though, that’s a different story. I can identify with them. I’ll bet you can, too. After all, when it comes to the way we live our lives, how many of us really stand out from the crowd all that much? I’m not saying no one here does, but if you do, you’re the exception, not the rule. Statistics show that Christians in America do not stand out from the general population in terms of how we live or what we do in any significant way. In other words, according to the numbers, if someone took ten average people and told you to figure out which ones were Christians by watching their behavior, the chances are you would not be able to do it. As Christians we tend to blend in with the crowd, not stand out from it.
So, let’s think of ourselves as the ordinary people in this story. From what the Bible says, we’d have had no clue what was going on. God told Noah what was going on, but there’s no indication that God told anyone else. There’s no indication that Noah told anyone else, either. Even if he did, how many people could Noah have talked to, compared to all the people in the world? Hardly any.
If we’re the ordinary people in this story, we have no idea what’s happening. All we know is that it’s raining. And it keeps raining. And it keeps raining. The water starts rising. It looks like it’s never going to stop.
Maybe, at some point, we decide that God is causing this. Maybe, at some point, we ask God to save us. If we do, though, it does not work. The water keeps rising. We try to go to higher ground, but eventually there’s no higher ground to go to. The water keeps rising until we have nowhere else to go. And we die.
Do you ever feel like that’s the way life’s going for you? I mean, not literally, although the floods we had in this area a couple of years ago may have reminded a few people of that. What I mean is, do you ever feel like bad things are happening to you, and you have no idea why? You have no clear idea what’s going on or what’s causing it or anything. All you know is that bad things are happening. And they keep happening. And they keep happening. You think they’re never going to stop.
Maybe, at some point, we decide that God is causing this. We ask God to save us. But God does not seem to respond. We try to find higher ground, to go someplace where we can escape the bad stuff, but there’s nowhere to go. We feel like we’re drowning, and there’s nothing we can do about it. We feel like things are completely hopeless.
I’ll bet a lot of us have felt that way at some point in our lives. I have. Maybe you feel that way now. It’s a pretty terrible feeling. It’s one thing to feel like everything’s going wrong now. It’s even worse, though, when we feel like there’s no hope of things ever being different, when we feel like there’s nowhere to go and no one to turn to, to feel like not even God can or will save us. That’s got to be about as bad a feeling as we can have.
Here’s the thing, though. Whether we think the story of the flood is literally true or not, here’s the important point about it: God has promised that it will never happen again. If God ever was this punishing, unforgiving God, that’s not who God is now. We do not have to worry about that now or at any point in the future. God promised Noah that never again would God abandon humans or leave us without hope. God gave us the rainbow as an everlasting sign of that promise.
I think this is why this story is in the Bible: to tell us that, no matter what’s going on in our lives, we are never in a situation that is without hope. Even when we cannot see the hope, it’s still there. Hope is still there because God is still there. God will always be there for us.
That does not mean that God will instantly make all the bad things go away, of course. God never promises to make our lives easy or to take us out of bad situations. What God does do is promise to be with us in the bad situations and help us through them. God promises to be there every step of the way, no matter how bad it gets, and God promises to see us through to the other side of our trouble, no matter what that other side may be.
Is that always easy to believe? No. It can be hard sometimes. Depending on the situation, it can be really hard. Sometimes we think we cannot do it. But we can. We can believe it because we know who God is not the angry, punishing God described at the beginning of this story. If God ever was that way, God has promised never to be that way again. God has promised to be a God of hope, and a God of love. God gave us rainbows to remind us of that.
You and I are never abandoned by God. It may feel that way sometimes, but it’s not true. No matter how hard it seems to be raining in our lives, and no matter how much we may feel like we’re drowning in our troubles, God is still there. As the country song says, every storm runs out of rain. And at the end of the rain, there will always be a rainbow.
Most of us have heard the story of Noah and the flood since we were little. Even if you were not raised in the church, even if you never went to Sunday school or anything, the chances are you know the basic facts of this story. God gets mad at humanity and decides to wipe it out and start over. God decides not to start completely over, though. Instead, God saves Noah and his family, and tells Noah to save two of every living thing so that after the flood, life can start over again.
Now, just as with the creation story, I don’t want to get into whether this story is literally true. Think what you want about that. To me, the more interesting question is: why is this story in the Bible? What are we supposed to learn from it? What does it tell us about God or about ourselves? What can we get from this story that will draw us closer to God or help us in our daily lives?
When we look at the story that way, it seems like we have a lot of questions. Look at what the story says. It tells us God was sorry he had created humans. It tells us God willingly and intentionally killed every human being other than Noah and his family, no matter who they were or how they lived. It tells us God willingly and intentionally killed all sorts of animals, too. It tells us God willingly and intentionally killed the birds, the lizards, everything, other than the two of each that were lucky enough to get on the ark.
How do we square that with our vision of God? After all, the one thing we probably all agree on about God, the one thing we talk about in church we all the time, is that God is love. We talk about God’s willingness to forgive us. We talk about God’s grace and mercy. Yet, in this story, God does not seem very loving or forgiving at all. God does not show much grace or mercy here. Sure, he showed it to Noah and his family, and we’re told that the reason is that Noah was a righteous man, but was Noah really the only righteous person on the face of the earth? Was there no one else on the entire earth who was doing his or her best to follow God and serve God? Were Noah and his family really the only ones worth saving? Did no one else even deserve a warning and a second chance?
If we take these Old Testament stories seriously, they raise a lot of questions for us. They make us take another look at things about our faith that we tend to take for granted. What we decide to do with stories like this has a big impact on how we see God. It especially impacts how we see God interacting with us.
You know, when we look at this story, we tend to look at it either from the point of view of either God or Noah. It seems to me, though, that you and I can probably identify a lot more with the other people on earth, the people who were killed, than we can with God or Noah. God, after all, is God: more perfect and more holy than any of us can ever imagine being. As for Noah, well, we may like to think that we’re somewhat righteous, to varying degrees, but none of us would probably claim to be the most righteous person on earth, the way Noah appears to have been.
When it comes to the others, though, that’s a different story. I can identify with them. I’ll bet you can, too. After all, when it comes to the way we live our lives, how many of us really stand out from the crowd all that much? I’m not saying no one here does, but if you do, you’re the exception, not the rule. Statistics show that Christians in America do not stand out from the general population in terms of how we live or what we do in any significant way. In other words, according to the numbers, if someone took ten average people and told you to figure out which ones were Christians by watching their behavior, the chances are you would not be able to do it. As Christians we tend to blend in with the crowd, not stand out from it.
So, let’s think of ourselves as the ordinary people in this story. From what the Bible says, we’d have had no clue what was going on. God told Noah what was going on, but there’s no indication that God told anyone else. There’s no indication that Noah told anyone else, either. Even if he did, how many people could Noah have talked to, compared to all the people in the world? Hardly any.
If we’re the ordinary people in this story, we have no idea what’s happening. All we know is that it’s raining. And it keeps raining. And it keeps raining. The water starts rising. It looks like it’s never going to stop.
Maybe, at some point, we decide that God is causing this. Maybe, at some point, we ask God to save us. If we do, though, it does not work. The water keeps rising. We try to go to higher ground, but eventually there’s no higher ground to go to. The water keeps rising until we have nowhere else to go. And we die.
Do you ever feel like that’s the way life’s going for you? I mean, not literally, although the floods we had in this area a couple of years ago may have reminded a few people of that. What I mean is, do you ever feel like bad things are happening to you, and you have no idea why? You have no clear idea what’s going on or what’s causing it or anything. All you know is that bad things are happening. And they keep happening. And they keep happening. You think they’re never going to stop.
Maybe, at some point, we decide that God is causing this. We ask God to save us. But God does not seem to respond. We try to find higher ground, to go someplace where we can escape the bad stuff, but there’s nowhere to go. We feel like we’re drowning, and there’s nothing we can do about it. We feel like things are completely hopeless.
I’ll bet a lot of us have felt that way at some point in our lives. I have. Maybe you feel that way now. It’s a pretty terrible feeling. It’s one thing to feel like everything’s going wrong now. It’s even worse, though, when we feel like there’s no hope of things ever being different, when we feel like there’s nowhere to go and no one to turn to, to feel like not even God can or will save us. That’s got to be about as bad a feeling as we can have.
Here’s the thing, though. Whether we think the story of the flood is literally true or not, here’s the important point about it: God has promised that it will never happen again. If God ever was this punishing, unforgiving God, that’s not who God is now. We do not have to worry about that now or at any point in the future. God promised Noah that never again would God abandon humans or leave us without hope. God gave us the rainbow as an everlasting sign of that promise.
I think this is why this story is in the Bible: to tell us that, no matter what’s going on in our lives, we are never in a situation that is without hope. Even when we cannot see the hope, it’s still there. Hope is still there because God is still there. God will always be there for us.
That does not mean that God will instantly make all the bad things go away, of course. God never promises to make our lives easy or to take us out of bad situations. What God does do is promise to be with us in the bad situations and help us through them. God promises to be there every step of the way, no matter how bad it gets, and God promises to see us through to the other side of our trouble, no matter what that other side may be.
Is that always easy to believe? No. It can be hard sometimes. Depending on the situation, it can be really hard. Sometimes we think we cannot do it. But we can. We can believe it because we know who God is not the angry, punishing God described at the beginning of this story. If God ever was that way, God has promised never to be that way again. God has promised to be a God of hope, and a God of love. God gave us rainbows to remind us of that.
You and I are never abandoned by God. It may feel that way sometimes, but it’s not true. No matter how hard it seems to be raining in our lives, and no matter how much we may feel like we’re drowning in our troubles, God is still there. As the country song says, every storm runs out of rain. And at the end of the rain, there will always be a rainbow.
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