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Saturday, May 8, 2021

Where Love Comes From

This is the message given on Sunday morning, May 9, 2021, in the United Methodist churches of the Wheatland Parish.  The Bible verses used are 1 John 4:7-21.

            God is love.  We say that all the time:  God is love.  And it’s true, of course.  But I think that sometimes we just say that because it’s something to say.  It’s a slogan.  It’s still true, but we say it without actually thinking about what it means.  We say it without thinking through all the implications of the statement that God is love.

            In our reading for tonight, the Apostle John says that God is love, too.  But he goes on to deal with all the implications of that statement.  Let’s look at it.

            He says that love comes from God.  If that’s true, that love comes from God, then without God there can be no love.  And John pretty much says that, too.  He says that everyone who loves knows God, and whoever does not love does not know God.  And so, that raises our first question:  can someone who does not know God, love?

            Well, yes and no.  I’m sure there are atheists, people who don’t believe in God, who love their spouses and their children and their parents.  But that’s not really what John is talking about when he’s talking about love.  Remember, in Luke Six, Jesus says, “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you?”  He says everyone does that.  Jesus’ command is that we love our enemies, that we do good to them, that we lend to them without expecting to be paid back.  When John is talking about love, he is talking about the kind of love God has--a complete, total, unconditional love.  That’s the kind of love you and I, as Christians, are supposed to have.  And that’s the kind of love that we can only have if we know God, because that kind of love comes from God.

            John then goes on to give the ultimate example of how much God loves us.  God loves us so much that he sent the divine Son, Jesus Christ, into the world to die for us.  Jesus Christ, who was completely without sin, took the punishment that you and I should get for our sins.  He did that so that you and I could have the chance for salvation and eternal life, if we just believe in Jesus as the Savior.  As John puts it, “This is love:  not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.”

            That’s the kind of love you and I are called to have for each other.  Not that we can bring salvation to anyone--only God can do that--but that we love totally and completely and unconditionally, like God does.  And there is only one way we can do that--through God’s Holy Spirit living in us.  That’s why someone who does not believe in God cannot love in the way John is talking about here.  If we do not have God’s Holy Spirit living in us, we cannot love the way God loves.

            But even for those of us who do believe in God, it’s still hard to love in that total, complete, unconditional way.  We cannot do it by ourselves.  As John says, we can only do it through God’s Holy Spirit living in us.  But John says there’s one other thing we need to do.  We need to acknowledge that Jesus is the Son of God.  He says, “If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in them and they in God.”

            But we say, well, I have acknowledged that Jesus is the Son of God.  And I still don’t love in the total, complete, unconditional way that God does.  Why not?

            Well, what does it mean to acknowledge that Jesus is the Son of God?  Obviously, it means more than just saying the words.  They’re not a magic formula.  When we acknowledge that Jesus is the Son of God, we need to really mean it.  We need to really believe it.

            And we say, well, but I do.  I do mean it when I say Jesus is the Son of God.  I really do believe it.  But I still struggle with this.  Why?

            And believe me, I struggle with it, too.  Why?  Because what John is talking about here is not just a commitment of the head.  He’s not just talking about having an intellectual belief that Jesus is the Son of God.  John is talking about a lifestyle.  John is talking about acknowledging Jesus is the Son of God with every action we take.  With every word we say.  With every thought we think.  Every aspect of our lives needs to acknowledge that Jesus is the Son of God.  This is not something we can do once and then we’re done with it.  It’s something we need to do every day.  Every hour.  Every minute.  Acknowledging that Jesus is the Son of God needs to be something we do all the time.

            And that’s what, so much of the time, we fail at.  We spend far too much of our time not acknowledging that Jesus is the Son of God.  In fact, we spend far too much of our time not thinking about Jesus at all.

            Let me ask you:  how often, during a normal day, do you think about Jesus?  You’ll have to answer that for yourself, but I know that for me that answer is “not nearly as often as I should.”  And it’s not that I don’t want to.  It’s not that I intentionally ignore Jesus.  It’s just that, well, I get distracted.  I think about baseball.  Or music.  Or my work.  And of course, that last one I can justify to myself because I can say, well, my work is about Jesus.  Well, yeah, but preparing a sermon or preparing confirmation class or doing the other things I do is not necessarily the same thing as acknowledging that Jesus is the Son of God.  It can be, if I bring the right attitude to it, and sometimes I do.  But far too often I don’t.

            Now, I’m not saying we have to consciously think about nothing but Jesus every minute of our lives.  But Jesus needs to be involved in all of it.  And the thing is, it can be so easy for us to kind of compartmentalize Jesus.  We think about Jesus when we’re in church.  And maybe when we pray.  And maybe if we do a daily Bible reading or a daily devotion.  And then--we get up, we go about our business, and we leave Jesus behind.  We don’t think about Jesus at all until the next daily devotion, or the next Bible reading, or the next Sunday in church.  We go acknowledge Jesus as the Son of God while we’re doing those “Jesus” things, but we don’t acknowledge Jesus as the Son of God the rest of the time.  And so we do not love totally and completely and unconditionally.  We do not love as God loves because we do not have God’s Holy Spirit living in us.  And we do not have God’s Holy Spirit living in us because we are not acknowledging Jesus as the Son of God.

            So, how do we move forward?  John tells us that, too.  We move forward by constantly feeling God’s love.

            John says, “We know and rely on the love God has for us.”  And later, “We love because he first loved us.”

            The key to acknowledging Jesus as the Son of God all the time is feeling God’s love for us all the time.  And for me, that makes it a lot easier.  Acknowledging Jesus as the Son of God all the time sounds hard for me.  I’m not sure I can do that.  I’m not even sure I want to.  But feeling God’s love all the time?  That’s something I think I can do.  And in fact, it’s something I want to do.  Who wouldn’t?

            It’s not always easy, of course.  We all have times when things go wrong.  And sometimes they’re important things, dealing with ourselves or our loved ones.  When things go seriously wrong, it can be hard to feel God’s love.

            But we can still do it, even in those times.  If we can take a step back, and get past our current situation, we can think of all kinds of times we’ve felt God’s love.  We can think of all kinds of times God has been there for us and helped us through whatever we were going through.  We can know that, if God has been there for us in the past, God will be there for us again.  And we can be confident that, if God’s love has been there for us before, God’s love is still there for us.  We can feel God’s love, even in those hard times.

            God is love, and love comes from God.  If we feel God’s love, we will be able to acknowledge that Jesus is the Son of God.  If we acknowledge Jesus as the Son of God, we will have God’s Holy Spirit living within us.  And with the help of God’s Holy Spirit we’ll be able to love like God loves:  completely, totally, and unconditionally.  Then we will know how it feels to live in God, and have God live in us.  And once we have that feeling, we’ll never want to be without it.

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