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Saturday, March 7, 2020

The Born Again Process

The message given in the United Methodist churches of the Wheatland Parish on Sunday, March 8, 2020.  The Bible verses used are John 3:1-21.


            We talk a lot about God’s Holy Spirit, and yet the Holy Spirit is probably the person of the trinity we understand the least about.  We can understand God the Father, at least to some extent.  We call Him by all sorts of titles:  the Creator, the Almighty, the Ancient of Days, on and on and on.  And we can understand Jesus--God the Son--to some extent, too.  We can picture him--I mean, I’m sure Jesus did not look like the paintings we have, but I think most of us have some sort of mental picture of Jesus, whether it’s accurate or not.  And because Jesus actually walked on the earth and had conversations with real people, it’s a lot easier for us to get our minds around who Jesus is--not totally, but again, to some extent.
            But the Holy Spirit?  What’s the Holy Spirit, exactly?  Well, it’s--it’s a Spirit.  And it’s Holy.  But what else?
            In our Bible reading for today, Jesus talks a little about the Holy Spirit.  When we read this passage, we often skip down to John Three, Sixteen.  That’s the part we like.  And we will get to that, but first, we have to deal with some of the stuff we don’t like.  And what we don’t like dealing with so much is the whole “born again” thing.  It’s harder to understand.
            But Jesus said that no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.  And then, just to make sure there was no mistake, he said that no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit.  So being born again must be pretty important, and we need to deal with it.  And the way we are born again is through God’s Holy Spirit.
            One thing that people sometimes get hung up on is whether being “born again” has to be a definite, instantaneous experience or whether it can be a process that plays out over a period of time.  As United Methodists, we believe it can be either way.  There are people who have a “born again experience”, who are changed instantly by God’s Holy Spirit.  There are others for whom it happens gradually, over a period of time.
            That’s how it’s happened for me.  I cannot point to one specific time and place at which God’s Holy Spirit transformed me.  I can think of times where I’ve felt God’s Holy Spirit with me, but not in the sense of a born again experience.  For me, being born again has happened gradually, over a period of time.  And in fact, I believe it’s still happening.  I believe I’m still in the process of being born again, of being transformed, of having God’s Holy Spirit work within me.
            I hope that does not sound arrogant, because I don’t mean it to be.  I have no control over God’s Holy Spirit.  I’m not even sure I always recognize it.  I can be really good at convincing myself that I’m following God’s Holy Spirit when in fact I’m just doing what I want to do.  As Jesus says, you cannot tell where the Spirit is going to go.  All any of us can do is try to be open to God’s Holy Spirit and do our best to follow where the Spirit leads us.
            I say that, and you know, it sounds fairly simple.  And it sounds like a good thing.  After all, God’s Holy Spirit would never lead us the wrong way, right?  And of course that’s true.  The Holy Spirit never would lead us the wrong way.  But the Spirit might lead us to places we don’t want to go.  The Spirit might lead us to places that scare us.  In fact, the Spirit might lead us to places that are dangerous.  After all, look where the Holy Spirit led Jesus.  The Spirit led Jesus to the cross.
            But that’s the thing about being born again.  That’s the thing about truly being born of God’s Holy Spirit.  If we do that--if you and I fully and completely surrender ourselves to God’s Holy Spirit--we give up control over our own lives.  We go where God’s Holy Spirit takes us.  Jesus compared the Holy Spirit to the wind.  If you and I truly surrender our lives to God’s Holy Spirit, we basically become leaves being blown around by that wind.  If it’s a soft, gentle breeze, we might not get blown very far at all.  We might make a nice, gentle landing more or less where we are.  But if it’s a forty or fifty mile an hour wind, like we can get around here, we might get blown into the next county or the next state or even farther.  And we don’t know which it’s going to be.
            It is really hard to give up that much control of our lives.  It is really hard to completely surrender to God’s Holy Spirit.  I cannot say I’ve done it.  I’m not sure I’ve ever known anyone who has.  I know some who’ve come close.  But even if we try, even when we’re serious about trying to turn our lives over to God, we are really hesitant to do it completely.  We keep trying to take that control back for ourselves.  We say, “God, I’ll give you most of my life, but I’m going to keep this part for myself.  This part belongs to me.”
            That’s why I say that being born again is a process.  Even if you had a true “born again experience”, there’s an extent to which it’s still a process.  Even when we truly are born again, our sinful nature does not magically go away.  Satan does not just decide to stop working on us, either.  Satan may wait for a better time, just as he did with Jesus in the wilderness, but Satan does not give up.  That’s why we need to keep trying to get closer and closer to God’s Holy Spirit, so we have the Holy Spirit’s protection, both against Satan and against ourselves.
            But the thing is, Jesus knew that.  Jesus knew that being born again is a process.  Jesus knew the battles we were going to have to fight.  Jesus understood them better than we do.  And that’s why, after Jesus told us that we need to be born again, and after Jesus told us give our lives to God’s Holy Spirit, Jesus said those words that we love so much.  He said, “the Son of Man must be lifted up, that everyone who believes may have eternal life through him.  For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish, but have eternal life.”
            When we accept Jesus as the Savior, God’s Holy Spirit comes to us.  And God’s Holy Spirit changes us.  It transforms us.  That’s really what we mean when we say we’re born again.  We are no longer the people we were before.  Are we perfect people?  No.  The only perfect person who ever walked on the earth was Jesus.  As I said, we’re still going to have to fight our sinful nature, and Satan is not going to leave us alone, either.
God, of course, is all-powerful, so God’s Holy Spirit could transform us into perfect people if God chose to do that.  But God continues to give us free will.  And that means God gives us the ability to turn away from God’s Holy Spirit and do things our own way.  And sometimes we do.  Even after we’ve accepted Jesus as the Savior, we still sometimes want to do things our own way.  God’s Holy Spirit may come to us, but sometimes we fight against the Spirit.
God understands that, too, of course.  But even so, when we accept Jesus as the Savior, and when God’s Holy Spirit transforms us, we are different people.  Because now, we’re God’s people.  
Listen to this part.  We don’t talk about this part so much, but this is verses twenty and twenty-one:  “Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed.  But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what they have done has been done in the sight of God.”
There are a lot of things we can take out of those verses, but one of them is that when we accept Jesus as the Savior, we come into the light.  What we do is seen plainly.  It’s done in the sight of God.  That does not mean that everything we do will be pure and perfect.  There will still be times when we’ll do what we want to do and try to justify what we’ve done.  But once we accept Jesus as the Savior, we stop trying to hide what we’ve done.  We especially stop trying to hide it from God.  Again, we may try to justify it.  We may even try to argue with God about it.  But we’re not trying to hide it.  We admit to God who we are and what we’ve done.  We will live honestly “living by the truth”.  And when God’s Holy Spirit makes it clear that what we’ve done was wrong, we’ll acknowledge that, ask for forgiveness, and start again.
When we accept Jesus as the Savior, God’s Holy Spirit comes to us and changes us.  It transforms us.  We no longer feel that we have to hide who we are.  We can live by the truth, confident in who God is and in who we are in relation to God.  And, over time, we can truly be born again.

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