The Sunday night message given June 16, 2024 in the Gettysburg United Methodist church. The Bible verses used are Matthew 18:1-10.
Today
is Father’s Day. And on this Father’s Day, it seems appropriate to talk
about children because, after all, you cannot be a father if you don’t have
children, right?
But
of course, there’s a lot more to being a father–or a mother–than simply
creating a child. To be a father, or a mother, you need to actually take
responsibility for that child. And that responsibility comes in a variety
of forms. There’s financial responsibility, making sure your children
have food and clothing and shelter. There’s educational responsibility,
and that does not mean just sending them to school. That means really
teaching your children the things they need to know to get along in the
world. There’s emotional responsibility, showing love to your children
and making sure they always know that you love them.
But for a Christian, there’s a responsibility
that comes above all that. For a Christian parent, the number one
responsibility you have for your children is raising them in a way that they
will come to accept Jesus Christ as the Savior.
Now,
before I go any farther, I want to make one thing clear. I am not saying
that if your children do not accept Jesus Christ as the Savior, that it’s all
your fault or that you’ve failed as a parent or anything like that.
Eventually, all children grow up, and when they do they make their own
choices. That’s true in all respects, including faith. They make
their own choices, and they are responsible for the consequences of those
choices. Parents can only do so much for so long, and then they have to
let the children go.
But
parents do need to do the best they can. They need to do the best they
can to give their children the best chance they can to make the right
choices. And again, the most important of those is giving your children
the best chance you can to choose Jesus Christ as the Savior.
And that brings us to our Bible reading for
today. Jesus is talking about children. He makes the statement,
which many of us have heard before, that children are the greatest in the
kingdom of heaven, and that if we want to be great in the kingdom of heaven, we
need to be as humble as children.
And
we kind of like that. After all, it’s become a cliche to talk about the
importance of children. “Children are our future”, we love to say.
“We’re doing it for the children”, the politicians say when they’re trying to
push their pet program. “We have to listen to the young people”, we
say–as long as those young people agree with us, of course. We’re fine with
Jesus saying children are the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
But then, Jesus starts talking about our
responsibility to those children. “If anyone causes one of these little
ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a huge
millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the open sea. “ Jesus
warns against being a stumbling block for those children. He says, “See
that you do not disdain one of these little ones.”
Now,
our church is doing better than it used to be. A year ago we often did
not have any children in church, and last week we had seven. Almost every
week we have at least two or three. We are making progress.
But
still, think about this. How many children do we have in this
community? Of that number, how many children go to church on an average
Sunday.
I’m sure there are churches in town that have kids
than we do. But we also know that there are a lot of children in town who
don’t go to church anywhere. Some of them come to our Faith Builders
program in Gettysburg, and we’re glad of that. Some of them might come
once in a while, on a special occasion, or at Christmas or Easter. But
many of them never go to church. Think about that. We have children
in our communities who have never seen the inside of a church. They have
no idea what goes on here. They have no idea what happens in a church on
Sunday morning. They have no idea who Jesus Christ is. And because
of that, they have no idea why they might want to come here.
Now, before I go any farther, two things. If you
bring your kids to church regularly, I’m not talking about you. You are
doing your job. You are fulfilling that most important responsibility of
giving your children the best chance they can have to accept Jesus as the Savior.
Again, they may or may not accept Him–they will make their own decision as they
get older. But you are doing everything you can to make the right
decision. And that’s a wonderful thing. I congratulate you for
that.
And the second thing is, there are probably some of
those parents who are teaching their children about God at home. It’s
certainly true that you can be a Christian without going to church. It’s
harder, because you don’t have the support system of a church to help you when
your faith wavers. But it is possible.
But
we know there are many families who are not doing that. And that means
those parents are failing at that most important responsibility. I’ve
heard many parents tell me, in regard to Faith Builders, “well, my kids just
don't want to go.”
Think about that. We don’t give kids a choice
about going to school during the week–we tell them that they’re going whether
they want to or not. We’ll do everything we can to push kids into music
or sports or other activities. But when it comes to something that
impacts their eternal life, we say, “Well, I’ll just let my kids do whatever
they want.”
These are parents who love their kids. These are
parents who take care of their kids in many ways. These are parents want
what’s best for their kids. Except, again, for the one thing that’s most
important of all–a relationship with Jesus Christ.
Now, you may be thinking that I’m
addressing this to the wrong audience. After all, you’re here. And
maybe you’ve already raised your kids, or maybe, like me, you never had
any. But here’s the thing. Jesus did not just direct those words we
read tonight to parents. He directed them to everyone. All of us
have an obligation to do everything we can to help our children accept Jesus
Christ as the Savior. Remember, in Jesus’ last statement in the gospel of
Matthew, he tells us to “go and make disciples.” Parents may have the
primary responsibility here, but you and I still have a responsibility, too.
What does that mean? That means that all of
us–you and I and every Christian–have an obligation to do what we can to reach
those young people. I’m pretty sure that just about everyone here knows
someone who has children. We need to do what we can to help those
children know about Jesus. We need to do what we can to help those
children accept Jesus as the Savior.
Maybe that means encouraging those parents to bring
their children to church. Maybe that means encouraging those parents to
bring their children to Sunday School or Faith Builders. Maybe, if you
have the chance, it means getting to know the children themselves. Maybe,
if you have the chance, it means telling them Bible stories. Whatever it
means, we need to do whatever we can to bring those children to faith in Jesus
Christ.
And maybe you’re thinking, well, but I’ve tried that,
and it did not work. Or, maybe you’re thinking, there’s no point in
trying that, because it won’t work. And maybe it won’t. Almost
certainly there will be times when it won’t. But I want to encourage you
to keep trying, anyway. I encourage you to do that for two reasons.
One is that our definition of success is not the same
as God’s definition of success. God does not define our success by how
many people we can bring to Christ. God defines our success by how
faithful we are to Him. Jesus told us to do what we can to bring children
to Christ. If you and I do everything we can to bring children to Christ,
we will have succeeded in God’s eyes, regardless of how many children we
actually reach. Because we will have been faithful to God.
But
here’s the other reason. I think that if there is even one child who has
salvation and eternal life partly because of something we said or did, it will
all be worth it. No matter how many children we don’t reach, if we can
reach just one, it will all be worth it. How awesome would it be to get
to heaven and to find out that there was someone else who was there because of
what you said, or because of what you did? And what if there was more
than one? What if there were two, or three, or four, or even more?
That would be the greatest thing ever, don’t you think?
Jesus said that children are the greatest in the
kingdom of heaven. If we believe that, let’s do what we can to make sure
those children get to the kingdom of heaven. Yes, the parents have the
first responsibility. But you and I have a responsibility, too.
Let’s do all we can to give the children in our communities the best chance we
can to accept Jesus Christ as the Savior.