The Sunday night message given in the Gettysburg United Methodist church on October 29, 2023. The Bible verses used are Matthew 11:25-30.
Let me start out by asking you a question: do you
think being a Christian is easy?
I’m not going to make you stand up and respond, but I
think it’s an interesting question. It really kind of depends on how you
look at it, right? On the one hand, we think about all the
responsibilities we have as Christians. We think about how we need to
constantly seek God’s will. We need to constantly serve God and be
faithful to God and show love to God. We need to show love to others,
too, because that’s the best way we can show our love to God. We think
about how we’re supposed to live good and holy lives. We think about how
Jesus told us to “be perfect”, just as our heavenly Father is perfect.
That’s a lot of responsibility. And we have not
even talked about all the consequences that can come from following
Christ. We have not talked about how we can be mocked, criticized, even
ostracized. We have not talked about how, in some places, we can even be
physically attacked for being Christians. If we look at it that way,
being a Christian is not easy at all. It’s one of the hardest things we
could ever do.
On the other hand, we can think of all the joy we get
from being a Christian. We think about how Jesus died for our sins, so
that we can have salvation and eternal life. We think about how we can
feel God’s Holy Spirit with us in our lives on earth, too. We think about
how God is always there for us, in good times and in bad times and just in
ordinary times. We think about how good it feels to know that God is with
us, helping us, leading us, guiding us through life. We think about how
awesome it is to know that, no matter what happens, God will always be with us
and will never let us down. God will be with us every step of the way, no
matter where that way may lead.
The thing is, both of those ways of looking at
Christianity have truth in them. Being a Christian does carry a lot of
responsibility. But at the same time, God does not want us to feel like
our faith is a burden on us. God does not want us to go through life
feeling like we’re being dragged down by our faith. God wants our faith
to be something that lifts us up, that keeps us going. And one of the
proofs of that is our Bible reading today.
Jesus said, “Come to me,
all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my
yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you
will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
How are you feeling about your burdens
today? Again, I’m not going to make you stand up and respond, but I think
that’s an interesting question, too. I think a lot of us are starting to
feel like our burdens are getting pretty heavy. I don’t think we’re
feeling like our yokes are easy at all.
Now, most of us would not say so.
We’ve all got that cultural thing going on where if someone asks how we’re
doing, we say, “I’m fine. Not too bad. Could be worse.” Most
of us are not going to come out and say anything about our burdens being heavy,
even if they are.
In fact, we sometimes feel like it’s
almost unChristian to say anything like that. We think, well, I should
not be complaining. Lots of people have it worse than me. Besides,
nobody likes a whiner. And other people have their own problems.
They don’t need to hear me talking about mine.
It’s like we feel guilty about life
being hard sometimes. It’s like we feel like it would somehow be
admitting a weakness or something if we admit that sometimes life gives us more
than we can handle. I mean, you heard that phrase, “God never gives us
more than we can handle”, right? It’s not in the Bible or anything, but a
lot of people seem to believe it. And so, if we admit that we’re having
trouble handling something, we feel like we’re letting God down, because, after
all, God would not have given it to us if we could not handle it, right?
It’s okay to admit that life gives you
more than you can handle sometimes. It’s okay to admit that your burdens
are getting heavy, and that you’re not sure how much longer you can carry
them. It’s okay to admit that life is dragging you down right now.
After all, look at all that life is
throwing at us. War in the Middle East. War in Ukraine. Corruption
in the government. Wildfires. Hurricanes. Cancer. Other
health issues. Financial problems. Violent protests. And I’m
sure that’s nowhere near a complete list. I mean, you’d have to be
superhuman to not feel the burden of all that, to not have that stuff drag you
down sometimes. And I don’t know anyone here who’s superhuman.
But we all know the one who is.
And that’s the one we need to take these burdens to. When our burdens get
too heavy, when we’re not sure how much longer we can carry them, when we fell
like life is dragging us down, we need to go to God. We need to give our
burdens to God. We need to put our complete faith and trust in God.
God is the one who can carry our burdens
when we cannot. God is the one who can lift us up when life is dragging
us down. God is the one we can always rely on to be there for
us.
You see, one of the reasons our burdens
get so heavy is that we try to carry them ourselves. We think, I’ve got
to solve these problems. And if I cannot solve them, then I at least need
to figure out a way to deal with them. Now, that’s not to say that we
don’t pray about them. Sometimes we do. But too often, we pray
asking for a specific solution. We don’t really turn the problem over to
God. Instead, we ask God to solve our problems in a certain way and at a
certain time. We say, God, here’s what needs to be done. Now do
it. And do it now. And when God does not do it, or does not do it
now, we wonder what’s wrong with God. And our burden gets even
heavier. We become even more convinced that we have to carry it ourselves,
because apparently God is not going to. And so we make things a lot
harder on ourselves than they need to be.
That’s a kind of arrogance, isn’t
it? To think we should tell God what to do, and wonder what’s wrong with
God when He does not do it? We don’t mean it to be, usually. We’re
well intentioned. We really think what we’re asking God to do is the
right thing. But still, it amounts to arrogance. And there’s one
more thing Jesus said in this passage, and it’s something we tend to
overlook. Jesus said, “Learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in
heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
That’s what we need to do: be
gentle and humble in heart. Know that God has heard our prayers.
Know that God knows the situation. Know that God will act, in God’s way
at God’s time. Stop letting our arrogance make things harder on ourselves
than they need to be. Stop trusting ourselves, and instead, trust God.
God does not want us to make things hard
on ourselves. God wants to make things easier. But the only way we
can do that is to really give the burdens of our lives to God. Not tell
God what to do. Not tell God how to do it. But just turn it over to
God, and trust that God will handle things in the right way at the right time.
Does that mean we’ll just sit back and
do nothing, waiting for God to act? Maybe--there are times we need to do
that. But a lot of times, giving our burdens to God does not mean that we
do nothing. What it means is that we do the best we can, and then we
trust God to take it from there. We do our best to serve God and stay
faithful to God, and then we trust God with the results. We do our best
to show love to God and show love to others, and we trust that God will bless
what we do in some way. It may not be the way we wanted or
expected. It may even be some time before we see how God has blessed what
we did. But we trust that God will bless it, in God’s way and in God’s
time.
That’s what giving our burdens to God
really means--doing our best and trusting God. That’s what makes our
burdens lighter. That’s how we can take the responsibilities of being a
Christian--responsibilities that can seem heavy sometimes--and turn them into
the joy of being a Christian. Simply doing our best and trusting God.
Being a Christian is not always
easy. Jesus talked about the cost of following him, and that cost is
real. But even so, being a Christian should not be a heavy burden that
drags us down. And it does not need to be. If we turn things over
to God, God will make our burdens light. Then, we can truly feel the joy
of following Jesus Christ.