The message given in the Sunday night worship service in the Gettysburg United Methodist church. The Bible verses used are 1 John 4:7-19.
Are you afraid of God? Do you fear God?
Well, the Bible seems to tell
us we should. The phrase, “the fear of the Lord” appears in the Bible
over and over again. It appears eighty-six times in the New International
Version. Fifteen of them are in the Psalms. Twelve of them are in
Proverbs. We’re told that “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of
wisdom.” “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.” “The
fear of the Lord adds length to life.” “The fear of the Lord is a
fountain of life.” “Through the fear of the Lord evil is
avoided.”
All these quotes tell us that fear of the Lord is a good
thing. In fact, they make it sound like a necessary thing. There’s
no wisdom or knowledge without fear of the Lord. Fear of the Lord leads
to a longer and a better life. We avoid evil by fear of the Lord.
Does that make sense to you? Does it make sense that
we should actually fear God? Does it make sense that the fear of the Lord
would be a good thing?
Well, let’s think about it a little. We know that God
has a lot of power, right? In fact, God is all-powerful. And God
can use that power in any way God chooses. I mean, that’s part of what
makes God, God. No one gets to tell God what to do. Now, it’s great
that God is all-powerful when we get the benefits of God’s power. But if
you or I was on the wrong end of God’s power, well, we’d have a pretty good
reason to be afraid. Our fear of the Lord would be completely real at
that point.
We also know that God is holy and righteous and perfect.
And we know that we are not. We know how far short we fall, not
only of who God is but of who we should be. We know that we have a sinful
nature, and we know that we give in to that sinful nature far too often.
That means that God would have every right to punish us for our sins if God
chose to. Knowing that, it’s easy to see where we might be afraid of
God. We might very well feel fear of the Lord.
But we say, wait a minute. God would never use God’s
power against us. God would not punish us for our sins. God is our
Father. God is our friend. God loves us. God forgives
us. God is merciful toward us. God protects us. We don’t need
to fear God. Our loving, caring, merciful God would never do anything
like that to us.
[Well, that’s what the people of Israel used to think, too.
They told themselves they were God’s chosen people. They told
themselves they did not need to fear God. God had singled them out for
special treatment. And they believed that would be true no matter what
they did and no matter what they said. They said, well, we don’t have to
fear God. God’s going to take care of us no matter what we do.
The people of Israel decided they did not need to have any
fear of God. They thought they could do whatever they wanted to do and
there would be no consequences. They thought God owed it to them to keep
them prosperous and powerful no matter what they did. But of course, they
found out differently. God does not owe anyone anything. God does
love us, but God is not willing to be taken advantage of. God is not
willing to be taken for granted. God will not be treated as a Get out of
Jail Free card, something we pull out of our pocket to keep us from having to
face the consequences of what we’ve done. And when we treat God that way,
God will show us why we should not have. And then we’ll find out why the
people who wrote the Bible told us that having some fear of the Lord is a good
thing.
Now, we can carry fear of the Lord too far, too. God
is not sitting in heaven looking for reasons to punish us. God is not
keeping an eagle-eye on us, hoping to catch us doing something wrong so God can
step in and squash us. God does not want us to be so scared of God that
we’re afraid to approach Him, afraid to pray to Him, afraid to do anything for
fear that we might do something wrong and provoke God to anger. I’ve said
before that we don’t worship an angry God, and I still believe that.
When we talk about fear of the Lord, we’re actually talking
about a couple of things. One of them is respect. Showing some fear
of the Lord shows that we respect God. Not just that we respect God’s
power, although that’s part of it. But we also respect God’s
greatness. And we respect God’s goodness. We realize that God
deserves our respect, and we also realize that there may be consequences to us
if we don’t.
When we say, well, I can do
whatever I want and God will forgive me, we’re showing disrespect for God.
When we feel free to just ignore what God has told us to do because God
owes it to us to forgive us, we’re showing disrespect for God. And there
are consequences for that. As the Apostle Paul wrote in Galatians Chapter
Six, God cannot be mocked. God deserves our respect. And if we
don’t give God that respect, God is going to do something about
that.
Another things we’re talking about
is repentance. Because we know that, even if we’re trying to be good
people and do what’s right, we’re going to fail sometimes. All of us
do. Sometimes we’re going to say the wrong thing, or do the wrong
thing. Sometimes we’re going to get angry or frustrated, and that anger
and frustration is going to get the best of us. Sometimes we’re going to
have selfish impulses, and we’re going to act on them. That’s what we
mean when we talk about having a sinful nature. We do these things, even
when we know better and even when we’re trying not to.
And God understands that.
But that’s why repentance is so important. Because repentance is
another sign of respect for God. It’s a recognition that when we do these
things that we know we should not do, we’ve failed God. It’s an apology
to God, but it’s more than that. It’s telling God that we know we’re not
just free to ignore God and do anything we want. It’s telling God we know
we’ve let God down, that God deserves better than that from us. It’s
telling God that we know God would have every right to punish us for our sins,
but that if God will forgive us and give us another chance, we’ll try our best
not to let God down the next time. If we don’t repent of our sins, we’re
showing disrespect for God. And again, there are consequences for that.
When the people of Israel
decided they did not need to fear God, what were they saying? They were
saying they did not repent of their sins. They did not need to respect
God. And here’s the thing about that: If you don’t respect someone,
you really don’t love them, do you? You cannot really feel love for
someone you don’t respect. You might like them. You might want to
use them. You might even feel sorry for them. But you cannot love
someone if you don’t respect them.
And that’s what the Apostle
John is talking about when he says that there is no fear in love, that perfect
love drives out fear. If we love God, we will respect God. If we
love God, we won’t take God for granted. If we love God, we won’t think
we can do anything we want and God will always bail us out. We’ll still
fail, sometimes, but if we love God, then when we fail we’ll go to God and
repent of our sins and ask for forgiveness. We’ll want to do that,
because we’ll know God deserves better than that from us. We’ll know that
we’ve let God down, and we’ll want to make it right. Not because we’re
scared of what God will do to us if we don’t, but because we love God that
much.
Listen to how John says this works:
“If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in them
and they in God. And so we know and rely on the love God has for
us.”
We rely on the
love God has for us. Not “we take for granted the love God has for us.”
But we rely on God’s love. We rely on God’s love because we respect
God. We respect God enough to trust that God will keep God’s
promises. We respect God enough to know that when we repent of our sins,
God will forgive us and give us another chance. Not because God owes that
to us. But because God loves us, and we can rely on God’s love.
If we take God
for granted, if we feel like God owes us love, if we feel like God owes us
anything, we’re disrespecting God and we’re failing to love God. And
then, we might well have reason to fear God. But if we love God, we will
respect God and trust God. We’ll do our best to return that love to God,
and we’ll repent and ask for forgiveness when we fail. And then, we’ll
have no reason to fear God. Because we’ll feel the perfect love of God,
and perfect love drives out fear.