The message given in the Sunday night worship service in the Gettysburg United Methodist church on Sunday, September 26, 2021. The Bible verses used are Matthew 19:19-26.
Do you ever feel like your life is just kind
of--blah?
I mean, you’re doing your best
to live a good life. You feel like you’re doing what you’re supposed to
do. You’re trying to be a good person. You try to treat people
right, to help them when you can. You try to be there for your family and
friends. And yet, somehow--it just does not seem like it’s enough.
It’s not that anything’s going wrong, really. You look at your life, and
you feel like everything’s going okay. It’s just that--it seems like
there’s something missing. You don’t know what it is, but--you feel
it.
And you don’t know what to do
about it. So, you pray. And--nothing really seems to be
happening. You don’t really feel like God is hearing your prayers.
Again, it’s not that anything’s really going wrong. But you know, deep
down, that everything is not as it should be. There’s something missing,
and you don’t know what it is or how to find it.
I think that’s what was going
on with the man in our reading from Matthew tonight. A man comes up to Jesus and asks what he needs to do in order to
inherit eternal life.
Now, to the
people around Jesus, that would’ve seemed like an odd question. The
Jewish teachers told everyone what they had to do to get eternal life.
Everyone, at least everyone who claimed to be a faithful Jew, knew what the
requirements were. You were supposed to follow the rules. Follow all
the Jewish law to the letter and you’d get to heaven. Jesus knew
that. The people around Jesus knew that.
And surely
this man had to know it, too. So Jesus
knows there has to be something more behind his question, but he’s not going to
say what it is. Instead, he’s going to let the man tell him. So, he
gives the answer that any good and faithful Jew would give: follow the
commandments.
And the man gives another odd
question. He asks “Which ones?”
That’s an
odd question because the Jewish teachers would’ve said, “All of them, of
course.” And again, everyone who claimed to be a faithful Jew would’ve
known that. You were not allowed to pick and choose which parts of the
law you were going to follow. You were supposed to follow all of the law.
And Jesus
still knows there’s something more behind these questions, something this guy
is hesitant to ask. But Jesus is not going to say it for him.
Instead, Jesus simply responds with a list of some of the commandments.
Now, Jesus was not saying these were the only ones people were supposed to
follow, or that the ones he did not list were not important. He was using
these as examples. He was saying, in effect, “You know which ones.
Everyone knows them.” Jesus was still trying to get the man to tell him
what he really wants to know.
Finally, the
man tells him. He says, in effect, I’ve kept all the commandments.
I’ve done everything I’m supposed to do. But it just does not feel like
it’s enough. I feel like there’s something more, and I don’t have any
idea what it is. So please, Jesus tell me. What more is
there? What am I missing here?
Now we get
to the heart of it. The man has done what he’s been told to do all his
life. And yet, somehow, knows that it’s not enough. He knows there
has to be more to it than just keeping the rules. He knows he’s missing
something. But what?
The man felt
like you and I sometimes feel. Like his life was just--blah. He’d
been following all the rules, doing all the
things he was supposed to do, but it just did not feel like it was getting him
anyplace. He did not feel like he was any closer to God by doing
that. It’s not that he felt bad, really. He just, well, did not
really feel anything.
A lot of us
have been there, at one time or another. Not really feeling bad, but not
really feeling good, either. Sometimes, not really feeling
anything. It’s like we’re just kind of going through life on cruise
control. We’re living good lives, but we’re also living quiet
lives. We’re living safe lives. We’re not sure that anything about
our lives is really making an impact on anything or anyone. We wonder if
our good, safe, quiet life has any purpose, any meaning. Sometimes we
feel like we’re just kind of there, like we’re just going through the motions
of life.
That’s what
this man was telling Jesus he felt like. He wanted Jesus to tell him
something he could do to give his life some meaning, to give it some purpose,
to help him feel closer to God.
We have no
idea what he expected Jesus to say. Maybe he thought Jesus would tell him
to go on some sort of a long fast. Maybe he thought Jesus would tell him
to make a major pilgrimage or something. Maybe he did not have any
particular expectation. One thing I think we can be confident of is that
he did not expect Jesus to say what he said. Jesus told the man to go and
sell all of his possessions, give the money to the poor, and then come back and
follow him.
That’s a
really big thing Jesus was asking this man to do. Could you do it?
I don’t know that I could. I know I certainly have not. Neither has
anyone else I know. Don’t get me wrong, there are people in our parish
who give very generously. But I don’t know anyone who has sold absolutely
all of their possessions to follow Jesus.
And I don’t
know that Jesus requires us to. This is the only time the gospels record
Jesus ever saying anything like this. There were lots of other people
Jesus met, including his own disciples, who did not sell off all their
possessions, and Jesus does not seem to have told them they should. This
seems to have been something specifically required of this one man, rather than
something that we’re all supposed to do.
But why
would that be? Why would Jesus require this one man to sell all his
possessions, if he did not require that of anyone else? Yes, we’re told
the man had great wealth, and we assume Jesus knew that. But Jesus had
times when he talked to other people of great wealth, and he did not tell them
to sell all their possessions. So why did Jesus tell this man to do that?
I think what
Jesus was telling this man, and what Jesus tells each of us, is that it’s not
good enough to just follow the rules. I mean, it’s not bad to follow the
rules. But it’s not enough. It can lead us to just live a good,
safe, quiet life, and the goal of a Christian is not and should not be to live
a good, safe, quiet life. Deep down, this man knew that. And deep
down, we know it, too. That’s why our lives feel blah sometimes.
It’s not that we’re doing anything wrong, necessarily. It’s that we’ve
put our lives on cruise control, and that’s never a good thing for a Christian
to do.
The goal of
a Christian should be to live a life that’s dedicated to Christ, and that kind
of life can never be on cruise control. A life that’s dedicated to Christ
cannot help but have an impact on others.. A life that’s dedicated to Christ
will have an impact on others even when we don’t specifically intend it
to. A life that’s dedicated to Christ will have an impact on others even
when we don’t realize it. There’s no way we can avoid having that impact
when our lives are dedicated to Christ.
That’s why
Jesus said what he did to this man. Jesus could’ve told him to tithe, but
if he was following the rules as he says, then he was already tithing.
Jesus could’ve told him to just increase his giving, and he probably would’ve
done so gladly. The thing is that something like that would not have
gotten this man’s life out of cruise control. They’re good things to do,
don’t get me wrong. But they are not things that would’ve gotten this man
out of his good, safe, quiet life. There’s nothing about increasing his
giving that would’ve changed this man’s life. This man needed more than
just another set of rules to follow. He needed to feel God’s Holy Spirit
in his heart and in his life. He needed to put his full faith and trust
in Jesus.
We need to
feel God’s Holy Spirit in our hearts and in our lives. We need to put our
full faith and trust in Jesus. That may not mean that we need to sell all
our possessions. But it does mean we need to change something. If we really want to follow Christ, if we really want to
make an impact on others for Christ, it’s not enough to just take small, safe,
quiet steps. We cannot just do a little more of the things we’re doing
now. If we really want to follow Christ, we need to take the cruise
control off. We need to somehow, in some way, do something that will open
us up to feeling God’s Holy Spirit with us.
What that
means is different for each of us. It does not necessarily mean that each
of us has to sell all our possessions. What it does mean is that
something has to change.
And that’s
scary. It’s scary to change our lives, especially when, as I said, it
feels like there’s nothing particularly wrong with our lives right now.
It was scary for the rich man to change. He could not do it. We’re
told that he walked away sad.
And that’s
the thing. It is scary to change--but deep down, we know we need
to. We know that if we don’t, that feeling that something’s missing won’t
go away. We won’t have God’s Holy Spirit in our lives the way we
should. And we’ll be sad, too, knowing that something’s missing in
our lives but not doing anything about it.
Let’s not be content with our good, safe, quiet
lives. Let’s not live on cruise control anymore. Let’s ask Jesus
what we need to do to inherit eternal life. And then, let’s do it.
It could be scary. But when we go the way Jesus leads us, we’re always
going in the right direction. And that blah feeling will go away, because
we’ll have God’s Holy Spirit in our lives.